So new, and feel like giving up already
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| Fri, 01-28-2005 - 7:07pm |
I'm spent. I feel like I'm done already with this freakin dating thing, be it OLD or whatever. It's only been like 2-3 weeks and I'm already tired of the scene. The:
1. getting my hopes up
2. waiting for an email
3. either not getting one, or getting a canned hello
4. actually meeting someone and hitting it off (to me anyway), followed by either no contact, or minimal contact, but definitely not as "interested" after the meeting as before
5. did I mention waiting for an email?
6. and goshforbit a phone call....
I AM DONE! DONE DONE DONE DONE DONE! I have lost all hope, and it's way early. What does this mean?
Oh, and by the way, did anyone else find that the email tones got less flirty, and less everything AFTER the first meeting?
*boo hoo* and i really thought we had hit it off
oh well, problem is, i can't bring myself to say NEXT because I just DO NOT want to go through this all over again.....
HOW did you get to be able to deal with the pain of something not working out? and pick yourself up to do it all over again? do you just not have high expectations? does the pain just get easier to deal with the more rejections? does one become hardened to it?
me needs a big hug.... )-:

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Ya know what? So there's a rule. My first one! If someone gossips about someone else to me during the first meeting, I'm gonna think twice, because that SURELY means that the person is gonna tell some story about ME to the next person.
Think I'm gonna write that down.....
got any more for me to add?
1. Got kids spaced 10-15 years apart? Ask how many times married
2. "So how long have you been DIVORCED for?" (separated time don't count)
The rest is here:
http://pages.ivillage.com/cl-jhoover21/id68.html
Here's your big hug.
LOL
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