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| Tue, 08-16-2005 - 4:20pm |
ahhh. I am so mad. The guy I had a date with last night called me today. I did not like him like he liked me. SO I told him today that I am taking a break from dating and he told me "ok, good luck with all your psycological issues". UGH. now I feel pissed plus guilty.

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I know how you feel but don't internalize it. It amazes me how men try to turn the situation around and make you feel as if you have a problem. There is never a nice way to reject someone. Same thing happened to me via email.
Regardless, I prefer them to think that way -- yeah, it's all my fault! There are some real losers out there, and based upon how he responded, if you would have told him the truth, I'm sure the outcome would have been worse.
NEXT!!!!
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He probably says that to *every* girl that doesn't like him. Don't sweat it, he's lashing out because if his own insecurities.
One question though, are you really taking a break from dating? If not, won't he see your profile is still on the site and still active, and he'll know you were just saying that to get rid of him?
When anyone feels the need to slam another human being whether in a dating situation, friend or family it is because they aren’t happy with themselves and it gives them a sense of power over the situation or you (in actuality it’s their own insecurities). You rejected him, you bruised his ego therefore he wanted to make you feel worse then his rejection from you. It takes a person of maturity to say “thank you for letting me know and I wish you luck in your new relationship” “if things don’t work out look me up”—now that would have been classy but instead he was trashy, ha. So remember, don’t get mad, just realize you made the right decision and things that go around in life to come around or something like that, ha!
Also, yes THICK SKIN required for OLD. I’ve had my share of hate mail from certain men I wasn’t interested in – that’s just par for the course. You know who you are and that is all that matters. Also, two wrongs don’t make a right –don’t slam him back (take the high road) – silence is golden in this case.
Ms. Peanut
That's why it's important to *screen* phone calls for a couple days after a bad date, silly ;-)!!!!
Sheri
hmpft. I guess people sometimes just feel they have to try to hurt you back. It's just stupid.
Sara
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