some men have such chutzpah
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|Sat, 07-26-2003 - 11:18pm|
We had one online chat and he told me that he has a website in case I want to check it out. After we logged off I had a look at the website and noticed that it consisted of several pages photos, interests, stories etc.
The next day I noticed that he changed the photo in his profile. I saw that he was online so I decided to chat with him. I started by saying hi, that I liked the new photo and asked if the little girl with him in the picture is his niece. This guy responded by chewing me out over what I had writtten. He said that if I had looked at his website like he "told" me to do I would have seen the photos he had posted and that I would have known that the girl is his niece. He then asked if looks are all that matter to me.
I responded by asking pretty much WTF he was ranting about. (But I was nice about it - I don't swear at people). I asked how he could take such offence to a simple question and come up with some convoluted theory about me as a result.
He said that it seems that the new photo is what prompted me to start chatting with him and not the fact that I want to get to know him. He then said, "I'm sure you understand where I'm coming from."
I said that I actually don't understand. And that was the end of that conversation and we haven't had any contact since. Until today.....
Today I got 3 emails from him. The first one said that he'll be in my town within the next few days and maybe we can meet for coffee. The second one said that he definitely thinks we should get together and told me which days he'd be here. The third one said to call him to let him know when we can get together.
I definitely do not want to meet this guy. He sounds like he's a little unstable. I haven't responded to him and I don't know if I should or just ignore him.