SOME ONE HELP ME!
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SOME ONE HELP ME!
| Sun, 07-23-2006 - 8:58pm |
ok so here goes, almost a year ago i started talkin to this guy online, we started talking on the phone, some times a while would go bye with out us talking. I wasnt gonna jump into the whole online dating thing cuz i just didnt know at the time how people would respond when i was like yea we met online. But in the end i realized i really dont care what everyone thinks. We hadnt talked for awhile due to his job and mine and there was never any time for us to talk... but when we did talk online or on the phone the conversations would last for hours and i loved it....We talked about seeing each other but things got complicated again and we didnt talk for about a month.. he met sumone in that time and with all honesty it didnt really bother me, but he told me that he felt horrible cuz he had a great girl that liked him for him and knew everything and still wasnt scared to be with him(meaning me), now we have been talkin again and it didnt feel odd it felt like it always felt talkin to him great. No we talk about seeing each other and he cant wait and i cant wait but im scared cuz thats just the way ive always been im scared of what people will think about me since ive had my bad meet up with guys... he tells me all the time how attractive i am and i do belieave him, and im going up in a few weeks to see him, i just dont know what to do to calm myself... i know none of this is makin any since but i need to talk to sumone because its hard to talk to my family about this or my friends cuz they keep tellin me hes got to much baggage and idc if he has a kid and was divorced he treats me like a man is supposed to treat a women... ahhh sucks being confused.... anyone wanna help me tell me some storys i feel so alone with all this...
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| Mon, 07-24-2006 - 1:22am |
Well, I have a question. Why are you going to see him and not the other way around? Or maybe meet halfway? I don't know much about the situation. A lot of times families just want to protect. However, I really don't know what to say, except that I think you should be careful. You've talked to this guy but never in person. Believe me, it's a lot different. Something like 80% of communication is non-verbal. Until you know him for awhile in person, you really don't know him. He could say anything, express the sweetest sentiments that he could have gotten from a book, but until you see if his expressions, voice inflections, eye "reflectivity" match his words, you really can't get a feel for his sincerity. I know it seems like it, been there, done that. If you want to post again and give more detail, I'd be happy to give you more of my thoughts. Best.
