Someone tell me please...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Someone tell me please...
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Tue, 01-10-2006 - 5:52am

Guy #1 I'm seeing T- not sure where that is heading... still getting to know him... although each time we see each other things heat right up.

Guy #2 I thought G was out, but he's just messaged me asking me out for a drink.

I made my profile visible again shortly after the new year thinking that both #1 and #2 are out of the picture... so currently I'm emailing 2 other guys (have exchanged quite a number of emails, no meeting yet).

Have I gone right off the planet? Am I seeing/emailing too many guys?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 01-10-2006 - 10:28am
No, you're doing exactly what you should be--keeping your options open! Is G the guy you got a bit frisky with?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 01-10-2006 - 5:20pm

Yes G is the one night stand guy.

And now there's more...

So #3, C, who is about to quit the navy and #4, S, who is a Scottish guy. Both very nice, but still emailing.

Now I have #5 D, who I was chatting to on IM last night... lives a few suburbs away from me, seems like a nice guy, but not sure if i like him that much. And there is one more #6, GA (actually has the same name as #2) who wrote me a very funny, tempting email and gave me his number and has asked me to email or call him to have coffee.

SometimesI sit there and wonder what will come out of this... is my so called "the one" among these 6 guys or is he still out there doing stupid things and not looking for me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2005
Tue, 01-10-2006 - 5:47pm

I think it's healthy to go out with several people at first and not let yourself get too hung up on one guy just because it's new or exciting. It helps you stay more grounded in reality and what you want.

Eventually, one guy will start to outshine the rest and you'll know when to end it with the others.

Your "One" might not be one of these 6 guys, but these 6 guys are certainly helping you decide what you do and do not want long term. In the meantime, enjoy! :)

AJ, enjoying life with C.