Something driving me nuts

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Registered: 11-05-2003
Something driving me nuts
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Sun, 01-08-2006 - 8:34am

Ok, just for the record, I'm a white woman. Now, I have a LOT of friends of different races, & I don't think of myself as racist. However, I admit that I have only been attracted to white men. Just like some people like cowboys, thin girls or asian women...I just don't find men of other races physically attractive.

So, when I put my preference on these sites as "Caucasian" why on earth am I getting so many Black & Arab men writing to me? Do they not read?

I admit that I was once guilty of not noticing that a guy who caught my eye had "blonde only" as his preference. I caught it after I wrote to him. I really found it interested that some men still won't date a non-blonde or non-redhead or whatever since hair color is so changeable anyway. But, at least I don't go writing to guys who I notice only look for the slim/slender chicks since I am not, nor will I ever be, a waif.

So, why are these guys so obviously not reading?

UGH....just a rant!

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 01-10-2006 - 7:23am

Hey! I'm religious and believe in God. LOL. There's a fine line between belief and fanaticisim... just as there's a fine line between hobby and obsession!


*All said with smiles*


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Registered: 04-19-2004
Tue, 01-10-2006 - 7:41am
I never answer the "religion" question. I always choose "I'd rather not say" I'm agnostic, and there are a lot of people that don't "get" agnostic, they think I'm an atheist and can't comprehend what an agnostic is. So I just leave that blank.

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