Spoke to new guy

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Spoke to new guy
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Thu, 08-18-2005 - 10:38pm

I called the hot guy tonight and got his machine so I left a message.

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Thu, 08-18-2005 - 11:04pm

Confidence is *KEY*. Honestly, who cares what he thinks of you once he meets you. Whether or nor you're intended on being together is really out of your control as FATE has a funny thing of leading you in various directions. Maybe he won't be cute enough for you - if he thought you weren't attractive enough for him then he's not you're guy and honestly who needs that. Besides, stop worrying about "what if's"....just keep meeting new guys out with no expectations. It takes time to really develop something once you do find a connection so enjoy the journey of meeting new people until you do. You know who you are and how great you are - don't ever let anyone make you question that.

Have fun on the date and don't analyze the situation before it has begun. If something more develops then as I said BONUS ;-)!

Cheers,
SP

 
 
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 1:46pm

Good luck! I am sure if your pic is nice, you are even better. :)

Sara

 
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Registered: 10-26-2004
Fri, 08-19-2005 - 11:20pm

Hi Spark,

...And he is probably telling His friends that he has a date with the Hot Chick!! True that!

Agree with SP and double her emotions; you have everything, and you got it Good! Don't let anyone put you below them..Ever. Cupcake-ism # 2378: "God made you Great, but He did not make you better than anyone else". So, he is lucky to be in your company, as well.

Small red flag on the flattering about freezing his account, and changing his mind. That feels a bit like "I joined just to write to you"...hmmmm-age. I do not doubt that your cute pics can surely Thaw a man, but just go in with eyes wide open, enjoy yourself, and go home.

Good luck!

Truly,
Cupcake

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Sat, 08-20-2005 - 12:48pm

I didn't see Small Peanut's message because it was deleted!

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Sun, 08-21-2005 - 8:20am
Maybe she got accidentally put on your ignore list because her post is still there sparkle.
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Sun, 08-21-2005 - 2:25pm
Somehow I had you on "ignore" which I did not do purposely.
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Sun, 08-21-2005 - 10:34pm

Sparkle -

Just wanted to say I'm really thrilled at how you've thrown yourself into this lately. I know you had some issues with meeting strangers and seemed to have a spate of bad luck, but your attitude is really great right now... and SP is right -- think more about whether you like HIM than if he likes YOU!!

ENJOY and good luck!!!

Tracy