Stupid Ex-Husband Found My Profile

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Registered: 08-07-2005
Stupid Ex-Husband Found My Profile
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Wed, 03-22-2006 - 12:43pm

The ex started internet dating and found my profile on Match, according to our 9 year old daughter. He wanted to show mine to her, but luckily I had hidden it.

Now what?

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Registered: 02-20-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 12:50pm
I think it's bizarre that your ex would do that, but since you can't control him why don't YOU show it to her? Defuse the issue in an instant. Just make sure it's kid-friendly first.
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Registered: 08-07-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 1:03pm
Oh, it is kid-friendly. Very basic. But I don't want to involve her in my dating life unless I meet someone who I think will be a part of her life.
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 1:55pm

I'm curious, and am not in any way trying to judge, but why in the world was he compelled to show his 9-year-old daughter his dating profile?

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Registered: 08-07-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 2:01pm
The ex was going to show our daughter MY profile. Which I fortunately had hidden earlier.
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Registered: 03-16-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 2:13pm

OK, that's creepy.

heather 5-18-10
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Registered: 05-23-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 2:51pm
I understand your not wanting to involve her in your dating, but unfortunately and for what ever odd reason,
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Wed, 03-22-2006 - 4:51pm

Oh, okay, yes, I realized that, but I was also under the impression that he'd shown her his.

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Registered: 08-07-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 6:26pm
Thanks everyone for your responses. Whenever I feel bad about my daughter having two parents who are not together, the ex never fails to say or do something to remind me why that is so!