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|Sun, 11-22-2009 - 9:49pm|
Hello all. I've been in a so far successful long distance relationship for 3 years now. My boyfriend and I are 12 years apart I am almost 21. We met online back when I was in high school, through a file sharing (P2P) program and we were both hosts and helpers of a chatroom and our chatroom was like a family we had a lot of friends in that room together that would regularly go to this room, it was a help room where users could go to ask for troubleshooting help, etc..So we were friends before we started dating and saw each other in person. Another fact is that I was the one to flirt with him first and come on to him he never ever did anything perverted or said anything that would force me to do anything, it was all my doing I made the first "move" so to speak.
Well that was years ago and just last year my dad let me move to another state for college, which happened to be the state my bf lives in of course. Well, my dad made me move back "home" because he found out about my bf, yet apparently he knew about him all along and just didn't have enough "info" or proof about him to turn him in to the police I guess. Apparently he had a lot of our instant messaging conversations that I had no idea about, he never ever confronted me about this or made me stop being on the computer all that time when I was younger.
Of course from a parent's point of view he views my bf as a big bad predator and he's not at all. If he was I would know by now he would have done something after these 3 years of seeing each other in person and seeing him about every day when I lived by him last year. My mom also met him and she doesn't even know our history or how we met and I think she would know if he was a bad guy when she met him.
I really think we are meant to be otherwise there's no way our relationship would have lasted this long and is still going strong. I'm still trying to do everything I can to keep us a secret basically from my dad because he's already taken me away from him I don't want him to do anything else to make me never see him again. I'm almost 21 now and I'm still worried but don't think there's anything he could do now to turn my boyfriend in or keep me from him. The only thing he said was that if we ever got married he wouldn't have anything to do with me (which I think is stupid but whatever).