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| Tue, 01-31-2006 - 11:19am |
I need advice here. I have been dating this guy for 2 months and there was an agreement last Friday to take profiles down. I took mine down and his is still up there. My question is , how do I approach this without it looking like I am stalking his profile or something. any advice would be appreciated, thanks

Just say casually, so it feels good to have found someone and to finally hide my profile on match which I did on Saturday (or whatever day you took it down), did you get a chance to hide your profile? This will open it up without pointing the righteous finger.
Has he been active on match since the talk (you know the active w/in 24 hours) -- he may have forgotten about it.
SP
Hmmm. I've been pondering this, since I was cleaning up old word docs on my computer and came across a chat log... this guy and I had apparently
You raise a good point; the guy may agree and think it's a good idea at the time until he thinks about it later. Most men do like to keep their options open. So, do you think it's smart to let him bring it up then when he's made up his mind? i.e. no sex until in a committed, exclusive relationship, the guy knows it so it's his call?
Then in that case, the next time you see him in person, you need to have a direct conversation with him along the lines that phoenixmama suggested.
Sheri
Please, for both your sakes,
Ok I have the silly answer of the night......Wink at him....or send him a rejection...(I sent a guy I was dating the I'm sorry I just met someone and want to see how it goes rejection) It was a cute and flirty way to start a converstation about his profile still being up.
I think we get too wrapped up in the taking down the profiles. Nothing is sweeter than when a guy takes it down on his own. Too bad it doesn't always happen!
The next time you get together, could you ask him to give you a few extra minutes? Then open up the computer and ask him if he needs help getting the profile down. I don't think you need to worry about if he thinks you are stalking his profile. You have an agreement, right?
E