Taking things slow
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| Tue, 12-06-2005 - 9:41pm |
I suppose this is a good thing.
I met a guy on Nov 5.....we've had 3 dates thus far and it's been a month. Basically I've seen him every weekend except for the two when he was away (before and after Tgiving). It's been about 50/50 with both of us initiating. I talked to him tonight on the phone and although he mentioned "the next time we get together" type of conversations, he hasn't asked me out for this coming weekend.
I am all for taking things slow and feel, when I'm with him, he is interested. I guess I just don't want to overlook the "he's not into me" thing, if that's the case. Should I expect to see him at least once a week at this point?
Physically we've only hugged and on Saturday night he gave me a quick kiss.....nicely paced, I think, so he's not rushing anything and that's good. His messages are consistent at this point.
I know I should continue seeing/meeting other people but to be honest, I'm tired of meeting other people and have hidden my profile for the time being. If he ghosts on me or it doesn't continue I can repost my profiles.
I am overly sensitive about this subject because it was what broke up me and my last boyfriend. I want to do the right thing here. I've met 5 men in the past few months and he's the only one I'm at all interested in. Any insight?

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Thanks, SBC......Hugs to you.
The thing that saddens me is that I am really a trusting person and I'm now starting to go in the other direction.
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I think that is normal and will happen. And then what will probably happen is that you level out and find a new "balance." You'll learn to keep your eyes open for new things you've learned...
He might be trying to take advantage of the 8 women to 1 man ratio in New York City. There are loads of well paid beautiful women in New York that are looking for a boyfriend, it's a tough town for dating.
Deceitful...definitely time to move on.
Not really upset, just disappointed....mainly because I rarely feel a connection with anyone and I did with him. Obviously not the right connection. I'll be absolutely fine in a few days naturally.
Hey, who can understand emotions anyway...not always logical.
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