talked to a really nice guy last night
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| Fri, 11-03-2006 - 10:12am |
so I randomly ended up IMing with this really cute, nice guy on lava life last night. We talked for over an hour. He contacted me first, said i sounded fun, interesting, we swapped pics, he said i was very cute, blah blah. we talked more, then he asked to see more pics of me after we had been chatting for about a half hour or so. I didnt really want to send more, but i did...i just dont really have many pics of myself that i like. Most of the ones that i do like are on film, not digital-he even said the same thing about himself. A short while after i sent the pics he said he should go to bed. Of course, i thought, great he doesnt like the pics i sent. I said, ok, nice chatting with you. He said, you too, let's chat again. I said, ok well you have my email. He was like, yeah i do, super cute pictures by the way. I then got brave and said, we should hang out sometime. He said, yeah we should, let's email and figure it out. He went on to say that this weekend wasnt good for him but maybe next week.
so...i'm not sure if i should drop him an email on sunday or something? I really liked chatting with him...dont know if i'll see him on lava again anytime soon. Yes i know i sent him pics of me so he has my email...so perhaps i shuld wait and see if he emails me...but it just seems so up in the air since all he said was, let's email and figure it out. I figure, he wouldnt have said let's chat again and agree to make plans...if he really didnt want to?

I would let him contact you. And people say things online (and on the phone and in person for that matter) that they don't mean, ALL THE TIME.
I'd be a little leery of the fact that he asked you to send more pics--that he might be too focused on looks.
Sheri
so i just logged on to the site and I see that he has sent me an IM, just said, (:
I have no idea what time it was sent at...i responded, hi there....now no response...but he's online it says? It's the type of thing where he could have left it open and walked away (as i did) or he is ignoring me/
A suprisingly high percentage of guys online seem to only want to chat and have no interest in actually *meeting* anyone. He may be one of them...I find that the guys who want to IM tend to fall into this group (as opposed to those who email and then want to move to phone rather than IM).
So...he may ask you out but I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you.
Sheri