I'll try to keep this concise...
I thought you were going to say that he lived far away & that was his excuse, but seriously--he lives in the same city & can't find time to see you in months?
You are right...if he wanted to meet you he would be asking you...this behavior is a red flag and you need to decide how much farther you communicate with him without meeting him.
My story is different from most.
I believe he is not interested in meeting you and is probably already in a relationship!
The whole point of OLD is to DATE.
This has happened to me twice.. About two years ago a guy I started chatting with online and we never met. This went on for two months which was my fault. I kept hoping we would
Thank you Mark for getting straight to the "meat" (meet) of the matter.
Over and over again the primary advice is not to do online for too long for the DATING part is the primary goal (at least for those who show up on this forum).
Over and over again women post on how they have "met" such great guys online but never been face-to-face with them.
I totally agree with you but at the beginning of OLD we might make these mistakes and we have to learn.
I have an unfortunate situation with a guy I have been talking to on OLD for about a month now. He is working in Calif. right now for the month of June and some of July . He lives like me on the East Coast as I have said in another post.
We will meet but its just the timing that is off. We just cant meet until he gets back from Calif. No one's fault.
So should I stop talking to him and wait until we meet face to face ?
Just a heads up on working out of town, I met a wonderful guy online with the premise of he was relocating close to where I live in a few months.