talking to two guys?

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Registered: 01-15-2009
talking to two guys?
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 11:55am

I joined an online dating website about a month ago.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 1:10pm

You should definitely meet both & then decided--and actually you don't have to decide after the first date.

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 2:48pm

Good advice from Musiclover. Just wanted to add: Oftentimes when you meet someone via OLD, the picture you had of them through emails is not accurate when you meet. Sometimes you can have what you feel is great chemistry in emails or on the phone, but then you meet and it fizzles. Anyway, I'm telling you this because I think you should meet both. You really won't know until you meet them.

Also, there's no need for you to tell them that you are going to meet another guy. They don't need to know that.

Best of luck.

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Registered: 02-23-2010
Wed, 08-17-2011 - 6:34pm

One generally doesn't date just one person when you place an ad on an online dating site.

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Registered: 05-19-2011
Thu, 08-18-2011 - 8:38pm

You should go out with them both!!! That's the beauty of online dating..options!


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Registered: 10-02-2003
Fri, 08-19-2011 - 8:30pm

I met two guys in one weekend recently.