Thank you all :)

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Registered: 09-08-2006
Thank you all :)
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 8:47am

Good morning everyone,

I just wanted to thank you all for your advice/support yesterday on my post from yesterday titled "Please help - I need to be talked down"… I wanted you to know that I did take what a lot of you said and used it and I have stopped myself from calling/contacting DC guy and just letting him set the pace and make the moves. I mean, don’t get me wrong, if he leaves me a message I am not rude, I do call him back, but I'm just trying to keep occupied and trying to keep from "bugging out" again like I did yesterday. I never brought up the topic again like some of you suggested, and sure enough he sent me a funny cartoon text message during lunchtime and then called me when I got home (a call which by the way I missed because I was eating dinner and playing with my little nephew) so I called him back and left a message when I was able. He then called me back later on to tell me he was going back to work for a couple of hours until about 11pm and would call me if he got out any earlier. He did not call and I did not think anything of it and when I came in to work this morning there was an email from him that was sent at 7:30am that said "Good morning:) I hope you are well rested. I worked like a dog, and very tired... but I will survive:) Let's chat later... I would call you at work to say hello, but don't know what the situation is like at work… I hope you have a great day!!" That just put a smile on my face and I see now that what you guys said is right and I need to just back off and un-learn my old behaviors. Anyway, I just wanted to thank you all for your help and good advice.
~Jacki