Thanks for all the advice

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Registered: 03-29-2003
Thanks for all the advice
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Mon, 03-31-2003 - 8:49pm
Ladies, you all are so wonderful, thank you for the advice and I took all of it. He will not be coming to visit and I will not be in a relationship with him. I tried to IM him yesterday twice, but he logged off and refused to talk to me, in fact he acted like a complete child himself, it was almost funny. We haven't spoken but the relationship that was never there isn't ever going to be there, he can find someone else he can boss around or treat like a child. But the stress i was under has lifted since i made the decision and not hearing from him has been heaven. I don't know why I even bothered to try anything with him, but lessons learned right. Anyway a BIG HUG TO ALL YOU LADIES. Take care....Vicki
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 11:02pm
Good for you Vicki! I think you made the right decision in getting him out of your life...there were just a ton of red flags there and it could have ended up being really bad. I hope you'll continue to post here though....we'd love to have you!

Lindsay

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 11:55pm
In typical fashion, I responded to your first post asking for advice before seeing your follow-up post!! But even so, I'm SOOO happy to read that you're dropping this guy. It was exactly what you needed to do, and it's obvious that you're already reaping the benefits of having done it. Good for you!! :)

~ Neat

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-01-2003 - 12:30am
WTG!! I think you made a very wise decision! Good for you! :-)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-01-2003 - 9:07am
OH, VICKI!! I am so happy! I was so worried about you and this guy. GOOD FOR YOU! I am so happy to see a woman take charge of her life the way you have. See? I told you, since you wouldnt play his little game, he folded. He was bluffing about how he felt and you saw through that. He just wanted somewhere to crash for the time and then he would have used you. Good job girl! You are smart and I am very happy to have you here on our board. Hang out here with us. We can use new posters opinions!! Goodluck in School and work!

Gail