Thanks for all the advice

Ladies, you all are so wonderful, thank you for the advice and I took all of it. He will not be coming to visit and I will not be in a relationship with him. I tried to IM him yesterday twice, but he logged off and refused to talk to me, in fact he acted like a complete child himself, it was almost funny. We haven't spoken but the relationship that was never there isn't ever going to be there, he can find someone else he can boss around or treat like a child. But the stress i was under has lifted since i made the decision and not hearing from him has been heaven. I don't know why I even bothered to try anything with him, but lessons learned right. Anyway a BIG HUG TO ALL YOU LADIES. Take care....Vicki