Thankyou ladies **hugs** *m*

I showed Fred my post and we sat down and had a nice long talk about it. He and I have been through some really rough times sicne getting married. He for one wants to do this to show me hes really really seriuos about the changes in his life and how much he loves me. He doesnt feel we are betraying our original vows at all, in fact he said alot of what y'all did.. its a re affirmation of our love and comittement to each other.

And seeing my mom get excited about this, knda gets me more excited too. Im searching for vows online that Fred and I both like. Some have even made me cry.. (yikes) we are meeting with an old family friend next week to ask him about performing the ceremoney and if he has any ideas or suggestions for vows. We dont want to write our own as that would be alot of stress we dont need.

Thank you for all the good wishes ladies **hugss**** im glad y'all are here. Make a silly girl like me stop and see what needs to be seen. :)

TTFN :) Charlene