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| Mon, 01-16-2006 - 6:02pm |
Yesterday I "picked my guy". I called up G#1, cancelled the date and told him that I've met someone else.
I've decided that I've done enough running around "chasing guys" on and offline; I've decided that I would like to stick with T and see where things go with him. Although we haven't said we're exclusive yet and it seems like I'm a little stupid burning my bridges with G#1, I have come to the point where I don't want to see anyone else except T... and if things don't work out with him I'm fine with it. I also can't see anything serious happening with G#1 in a longer run so I don't feel I'm at a lost. He sounded really happy when I called him but was speechless when I told him the news. Ouch! Yes, I feel awful for "dumping "him, but then it was something bound to happen.
I don't know if I can call T my bf yet, but I can see things heading that way. I'm never sure about how couples morph from dating to bf/gf. Do couples actually say to each other hey let's be exclusive?! heehee.
Anyway, thank you to all of you who have helped me out and good luck! OLD and speed dating have really been a great experience for me. I had fun and as a result, it has made me a freer spirit. At times I felt I was a new character in Sex and the City! My friends have laughed and said that I should give each guy a number instead of using their names in my phone. Oh and it's been fun getting free coffees and drinks!! Anyway, will keep you updated!
