Is there anyone honest out there?
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| Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:14pm |
I've been seeing someone from OLD for 2 months and things had been, I thought, going really well. We became exclusive early, 3 weeks, agreed to take our profiles down, and are intimate.
We got back today from our first trip, short weekend trip to visit friends. It went really well and I was feeling really close to him. I don't know what made me do it but just a little while ago I was online and decided to check for his match profile. To my amazement it is back there - not only that but he is online now! I am in tears. True, I don't know him that well given it's only been 2 months, but all indications were that he was a good, honest guy. Everything he said he would do, he didd. I believed him. I trusted him, not an easy thing for me to do. And now I find out he is a lying piece of ****. I am sitting here wondering if there is anyone out there who is trustworthy anymore, if this guy isn't thwn who is???? I can't believe I was so fooled. I keep wondering, is there any way this is a tech glitch - but how can it be???? I know that he took the profile down over a month ago, I checked, and profiles don't just resurrect and log you in on their own.
All I can guess is that he decided at some point that I'm not the one for him but he would stick around for the sex. I feel so used! Yes, we are adults and I was a willing participant, bu t he changed the deal without having the decency to talk to me about it.
I dont know how to deal with this. How to confront him. I know a conversation is in order, just not sure what I will say. I am guessing he will have some excuse and I am not s ure how to respond to whatever excuses he has. As much online dating as I have done Ive never been in this situation. Any thoughts appreciated.

Aww, I'm so sorry.