This is too cool

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Registered: 08-20-2004
This is too cool
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Tue, 04-19-2005 - 7:19pm

I am keeping you all here, and only you all here, informed.

Because each and every one of you has helped me.

And I wont forget it.

I have made it past the second date hurdle.

No, as all of you know me now, she does not look like claire forlani.

But, she's so freakin hilarious, I can't stop laughing when I'm out with her.

It's one of the most pleasant things I've ever experienced.

Our birthdays are the same day....FREAKY.

Of course, I dont know how it is gonna go, but, i'd say, acutally she is the
opposite, of what i thought is pleasant (alabama accent, tall, drop dead gorgeous, quiet), and she's from the north , outspoken, cute, etc.

But she's freakin hilarious, and, we like most of the same things.

I will keep you all informed.

And yes, I am still stiving to look like adrian paul.

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Registered: 08-20-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:21pm

I'm back! With an UPDATE WOO

First: I agree, there is nothing wrong with really pretty girls
using an OLD dating site. It seems normal to me actually.
I get sent 'matches' all the time and they are DDG.

Thank you for the little giggle comment: NO: the new date definately
does not have an alabama accent. Again, her personality is so hilarious,
that I would be not perhaps needing to hold that as my #1 criteria.

So, SUMMARY:

I pick her up, not prob with the car. We go to the ale house, to
hang out with my best bud, kevin, aka Python, aka Adrian Paul look alike.
This info, is actually important to the story. Also, 2 girls, and 1 guy
from his work are there. Earlier than us, they are already there.

So we get there, and I sit on the end, she sits by Python.
Python's WIFE is sitting on the other side of him.
Python is in top form, with a size M tshirt "marines" when he
is about size XL now.

Now, I'm about exactly 5 lbs over weight, just to let you know.

So, we get dinner, and also some drinks.

here is the important part:

During conversation, laughing , etc, she 'paws' The Python.
By that I mean, you know how when a girl likes you, or somebody or
whatever, when she giggles around, she might touch your back, leg,
arm, etc. You know what I am talking about, even though it does not
'write well or exactly'.

Every girl at the table caught it (I know, cause they asked the python
about it this morning 'what was that girl doing pawing you')

I can tell you this: The Python's WIFE, she DID CATCH IT.
"Very angry"

So, am I to think:
1. she just has some personality disorder, where she paws people.
2. is it a hint, I need to look more like adrian paul?
3. was she just pawing him cause she thought it was pleasant?

ps. it is yet to be determined if we are going out again, since
'you never know with OLD'. She did hug me goodnight when I dropped her off.

None of these things i've ever mentioned are really dealbreakers.
ie, alabama accent. It's like the reserve price, vs. the bid price,if
you see my point.

I can say this: "Jeanie" was VERY ANGRY about my supposed date pawing her
husband....although she showed extreme self restraint.

And yes, she knew the python was married before and during dinner.
He makes no confusion about it "I am married and I'd never ever cheat
on my wife, period"

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:44pm

Unless she was also "pawing" you, to a *greater* degree, I'd say she has issues. If she was being flirtatious with both of you (but paying you more attention, as her date), then that's just her personality and how she relates to men (which may or may not be acceptable to you). But if she was paying more attention to HIM, then that's just not cool (leaving aside the fact that he's married!)...you just don't DO that to a date.

Sheri

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Registered: 08-20-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 5:58pm

These are critical pieces of info.
I forgot to include it.

PYTHON got 'pawed'.

I got a hug, when I dropped her off.

I was not pawed.

Not trying to overemphesise this, but 'it does pay to look like adrian paul'.

Kevin is at the point now, he can't leave the house to a public place
without girls 'accidently' rubbing their OOBIES on him....or just
downright offers.

However, I never thought my 'date' would paw him in front of his wife....

Well, I guess I went from zero drama to mega drama....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 6:24pm

No normal, well-adjusted woman "paws" a married man and ignores her date.

And normal, well-adjusted women don't come on to married men.

So, the only "payoff" your married friend is getting from looking like Adrian Paul is that he gets unwanted attention from messed up women.

Sheri

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Registered: 08-20-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 6:31pm

I do have some concerns about this.....

I don't date a lot, so, mostly, it is all new to me
day to day.

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Registered: 04-21-2005
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 11:14pm
Man, that's awful condorski, if I did something like that, my BF would hit me hard, and I wouldn't blame him at all.. I hope you let her have it when you left the resturant
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Registered: 08-20-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 11:19pm

Thanks buffy,

here's what the Python told me, and I agree

In fact I think you showed a lot of class and self
> control by not saying anything that would have
> embarassed her. I think you had every right to say
> something but you took the high road. You should
> actually feel proud of yourself instead of feeling
> like you lost face.

I am gonna stand by that.

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Registered: 03-12-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 6:46pm

Call me Clueless in Connecticut since I have no idea who this Adrian Paul reference that is being made.... one thing sounds clear to me though... its the female equivalent of "She's just not that into you..." Forget about her and move on... not even worth a wonder of "gee, what should I do?"

TB

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 8:06pm

I'd say something is wrong here that she would "paw" a guy who *isn't* her date in front of her date! Also, I don't understand why you took her to something with people you know so soon??? That sounds strange to me and I would not have apprreciated that much had it been me. I would have felt like - Does he have to have approval of me from his friends first? I just don't feel she was very respectful to you and if it were me I wouldn't consider seeing her again, but that's jmo.

Sunshine

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 8:56am

"if I did something like that, my BF would hit me hard, and I wouldn't blame him at all.. "


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