Trying again :)

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Registered: 11-25-2006
Trying again :)
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 1:18pm

Hi everyone,

I am going to try this again, met this man on a dating site and we have been chatting and talking on the phone for a 5 days we are going out tonite, he's taking me to dinner. We'll meet there, he's looking for long-term. Wish me luck ladies, I'm like nervous but at the same time excited. Any advice I love coming here to the village it's almost like your all

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Registered: 01-22-2007
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 4:33pm

Just have fun!

I may be meeting my RL guy for a drink tonight, we will see how that goes...hmmmm....

Cheers to a new year :)

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Registered: 12-28-2009
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 2:50pm

I find your suggestions to be helpful (and probably the keys to not going crazy while OLD) - dont make a bigger deal than it is and take things with a grain of salt. Maybe they will become my new mantras for OLD.

Thanks for that advice!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 1:48pm

The biggest thing is to have NO expectations beyond having a (hopefully) pleasant dinner with the guy.