Trying it again

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Trying it again
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Mon, 05-23-2005 - 12:12am

I want to thank everyone for their very kind words on my breakup (that was on another thread). The guy I had been seeing these past 4 months and I talked tonight and he has missed me alot and wants to try again.

He had left a message on my cell saying that he had thought about us and had to talk to me, so I called him back. He told me that he was so sorry for hurting me so much. He is willing to try to compromise and wants us to try it again. I agreed, but I am going to make sure it is not all his way. I'm not sure if this was the right decision or not, but I guess I'll find out one way or the other. If I feel him wanting things only his way and pulling back in any way I'll end it.

Thanks again everyone.
Sunshine

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Registered: 09-18-2004
Mon, 05-23-2005 - 9:51pm

classic c'phobe YES and i just went through it and my guy was working through his issues.he was totally aware but still working at 37 yrs old on it.. it is very difficult to be w/someone that is ambivalent towards you and the r'ship.. It does wreck havoc on your self esteem. I suggest you start all over. If you jump in right where you left off it does not have as much chance of succeeding if you were to start in slow again. like not being intimate.. but girl that's up to you and whatever you decide we are here for you!!

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