Trying to keep my options open here ...
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Trying to keep my options open here ...
| Tue, 11-21-2006 - 11:35am |
As you guys know, things with Carlos are awesome - BUT ... no major committment (verbalized anyway) although we see eachother pretty often & speak daily - but he is aware that w/o a signed-sealed-& delivered exclusivity clause


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YIKES... even I can hear DANGER MUSIC with this guy....he is just looking for a qick hook-up and perhaps a cutie to have on his arm for a BORING CORPORATE XMAS PARTY...
If you should go, one benefit may be that you may meet someone really interesting...
But if he is so vacuous regarding NOT hearing that you were exhausted, etc...this guy needs some help - a relationship with him may be ride on the freak-show train!
Good Luck
Cheers
Sarah
Ok, here's the "reasoning". Yes, things are GREAT with him, but ... he is the one who a month or so ago, broached exclusivity. It freaked me out, but once I thought about it, I decided it would be a good thing.
See? I am not SO crazy after all! lol
Yes, if i had a list & check boxes, pretty much every one would be checked off when it comes to him .... except of course, the waffling! lol
Maybe I'm out of the loop because I don't follow these boards as much but weren't you/aren't you in the state of mind of "you just want to date" you're not looking for a relationship or marriage? If that's the case why not just date Carlos and this other guy you're sleeping with - for me dating is friggen WORK and I hate that I have to juggle my works outs, friends etc around dates - hence I can't wait to have ONE ..... and if that's the case if the guy gives you a bad vibe then NEXT him?
ok, just read this thread and see that you are now looking for marriage and a child again.
yes, we are all different but where I'm at I won't sleep with anyone until I'm in an exclusive committed relationship - last time I did the deed was last December - and now I'm waiting. But most are not this way, I understand ;-)
I guess I look at it as "can't you be alone" do you really need a FWB?
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