trying to stay cautiously optimistic...

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Registered: 01-27-2005
trying to stay cautiously optimistic...
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Mon, 08-22-2005 - 12:28pm

Hi Guys,


We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2005
Mon, 08-22-2005 - 12:40pm

You sound like your handling it well. Enjoy the romance with keeping the reality in check that this could be short term or long term and it’s really out of your control in the end as fate leads us in different directions for different reasons as there are lessons to be learned. Enjoy your time with him now and don’t worry (which is wasted energy) about the future or getting hurt – getting hurt is inevitable if you put yourself out there but at least you’re brave enough to do so.

It takes TIME to really get to know someone so you’ll either grow closer or decide you’re not a match.

Good luck and if things don’t work out you took a chance and if they do well, aren’t you glad you gave it a shot?

SP

 
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2004
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 12:10am

Ah, yes, getting what we ask for -- that's a tough one isn't it?? :):)

I am truly happy for you and your good fortune! Now relax a bit and enjoy each moment with your nice guy.

amjay

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2004
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 9:46am

You can still have a good time while keeping your perspective.

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