ugh. bad kisser

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Registered: 08-24-2006
ugh. bad kisser
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Sun, 10-25-2009 - 10:16pm
I've been out with a guy I met online 3 times, and I like everything about him except that he's a really bad kisser. We didn't kiss until the last date, and I don't know how I feel about this anymore. Can he get better at it? Is there any way I can improve this without telling him he's a crappy kisser? I don't even want things to go any farther physically right now because it just turns me off.
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Registered: 06-09-2008
Mon, 10-26-2009 - 4:17pm
Ugh, nothing worse than a bad kisser. BUT!!!! I do believe that even old dogs can learn new tricks LOL. I say, if ya like him otherwise, groom his kissing to fit you! If he really likes you back he'll take the grooming as fun and passionate and you'll both end up haveing fun doing it!






















































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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 4:01pm

I've stopped seeing a couple guys for exactly that reason--was so turned off by the bad kissing i didn't even want to try to see if it could be improved (and I'm not sure I believe it can be, honestly).


Sheri

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 6:50pm
Well, we went out again, and things went a little farther, but I just didn't enjoy it at all. I told him I felt like we had really weak sexual chemistry and that I honestly didn't want to keep trying. He said he was relieved because he really liked me but he felt the same way. We decided to just be friends. It sucks because we really were a good match in every other way, and that's rare to come by for me. I'm glad the feelings were mutual at least. I hate hurting people I care about.