Unbelievable!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Unbelievable!!
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Sat, 01-22-2005 - 1:34pm

The guy I decided to ding because he lied about his age (said he was 43 but is really 51) has now changed his profiles on Match and Yahoo to 41 (he keeps coming up in my searches)!!! The funny thing is, his user name includes the year of his birth, 1953.

I'm definitely feeling I made the right decision!

I wish there was a way of asking Match or Yahoo NOT to show you certain profiles. I keep reading the same profiles and remembering why I decided not to contact them...it would be nice to have a list that's the opposite of "favorites".

Sheri

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2005
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 2:39pm

Sheri...


You've just

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2004
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 2:45pm

I agree. My searches keep showing me this guy I went out with three times a year ago. His picture still makes me cringe. He fed me all the guilt stuff about how could I pass him up. I mean really...if there is no chemistry then you can't force it.

Michele

Michele
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 2:57pm
So Pianoguy what sites do you frequent? If any?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 4:11pm

Agreed - I'd like to "banish" some profiles myself.

It would be nice if you could make notes on the profiles in your Favorites. As it stands now if you add someone to favorites and they hide their profile -- you cannot tell (unless you have a good memory) who the heck it was that hid their profile. Being able to make notes would be nice -- as well as a great way to remember people during the busy times of the month.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2003
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 5:53pm
yah ive seen guys do that online. Its really sad to me they have to resort to flat out lieing. and bad lieing at that - since he has his birth year '53 in his screenname.
you'd think he would have enough brains to keep his lies straight.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2005
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 7:30pm

cbmroz...


Pianoguy likes to "hang out" at ivillage....since most of the women he chats with here are ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING!

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Registered: 07-24-2004
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 12:26am
I totally agree. I had one who kept contacting me when I said I was not interested due to several factors. I yanked my profile for a few months and recently put it back up and he responds again. I told him a nice thanks, but no thanks due to age and he still contacts me. Age was not the only factor but geez get the hint! I get the same sort of things too. It is too easy to lie on here and it is a shame so many do.
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Registered: 12-29-2004
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 10:24pm

Hi Sheri,

I just don't see the point of making bunch of cheap lies. Sooner or later they are all exposed, and the other person loses interests. Well, it may work if guys are looking for cheap one time fun (you know what I mean) but for a good lasting relationship, I'd say they're playing losing games.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2004
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 10:58pm

If they are essentially looking for nothing more than a hook up, what do the lies really matter?

Linda
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Registered: 08-12-2003
Mon, 01-24-2005 - 9:22am
Doesn't match have a block option? Or can that only be used if they contact you?

Michelle

Fill with mingled cream and amber,
I will drain that glass again.
Such hilarious vis

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