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Registered: 04-19-2004
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Fri, 08-12-2005 - 3:44pm

Things are going well with me and the guy...we had our first date on a monday, he emailed the next morning and called that night to secure date number 2 on that friday...then we saw each other again on last thursday before I left for vacation, he called twice on vacation and called me today when I got home to set up date 4 for sunday.

Things are going well, he's very sweet, doesn't push me sexually when I say slow down he backs right off (we haven't slept together I just meant kissing and stuff), he's very attentive and complimentary. So we'll see...

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Registered: 04-19-2004
In reply to: sniffle_sally
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 8:18am

Even better idea. LOL

He finally stopped. Good god...not only do I get the brush off but then I have to ease his mind that I"m not mad at him. good grief hasn't he ever ended things before? LOL

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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: sniffle_sally
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 9:29am
Some people go through their whole lives subconciously torturing themselves.

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Registered: 12-05-2004
In reply to: sniffle_sally
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 4:30pm

wierdly he wants you to fight for him, he needs to know you wanted him and don't want him to go away...drama.
Wow IMO this is the gentleman guy (right?) who was so polite when you first met...turning into a minor mindmesser*. Yup..drama and insecure because he is keeping his cards close yet telling you he isnt interested and then gets UPSET that you are going along with it not because you dont feel it for him but because you were just trying to be peaceful and let it go since you are not attached so dramatically..

i can definately see how confused must be. Tell him "hey, i dug you...you seem to be dumping me...what do you want me to say?"

sorry Sally :(

edited because I got a warning from Ivillage about using symbols to assimilate curse words (woops).




Edited 8/24/2005 8:50 am ET ET by lizzie1965
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In reply to: sniffle_sally
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 5:12pm
Pretty much Lizzie. He said in one of his emails that he may have issues that he needs to work on. I think that's the understatement of the decade. LOL

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