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| Thu, 08-11-2005 - 9:02am |
The past month has been a blur as my world gets more complicated but I wouldn't say it's been bad or uninteresting. I've ditched my MO of not going out on multiple dates so read and enjoy (or get perturbed :-)).
Police Officer gal- Disappeared. Although I saw her the other day helping push a stalled car off the street in my neighborhood. I was tempted to honk.... :-(
Normal gal- After 3 fun dates, she's on vacation so no update. Possibilities are good but I'm unsure of the chemistry on my side. I know it's on her side. :-)
S&M gal- She called me up last night and I drove 50 miles out in the country to meet her. She's young and very cute but she's really into S&M and I'm not sure I want to be her master. Over a plate of spaghetti, she explained to me she wants her new man to be the DOM and she's wanting to be the SUB. After choking on my stale garlic bread, I teased her that I forgot my candle wax and whip. Unsure of where this is going. :-O
Connecticut gal: My high school friend was at a bar in CT and put her on the phone. She gave me her cell#, home phone #, e-mail address, etc. Now she wants to move to TX. Yeah, really.......
Hospital gal: She ghosted on me 2 months ago because she was dating another guy. She seems like a nice match and she reappeared the other day. But she's keeps insisting on me sending her pictures. This is making me uneasy if you know what I mean. For instance, her last e-mail read like this... "Do you have anything more revealing?" :-(
Receptionist gal: She's our receptionist at work and she's 22. I'm 39. The flirting has been intense and she's been passing me notes. I will not reveal the subjects here. I'm going to probably try to end the flirting very soon before it gets us in trouble. But I keep forgetting this is how I met my 2nd wife. :-{
Also, I don't think the board is becoming boring but we're just in a transition between old and new members and I think the current cl's are doing a great job. Eric, sorry to hear about your dad. My mom is in similiar circumstances at the present time so I can empathisize with you to some extent.
TT

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Thanks, TT, I appreciate it.
Wow, that's quite an assortment of dates, both normal and bizzare. But, at least you're getting out there and dating. That's a good thing. You will eventually meet someone "normal" and nice.
Anyway, you get some interesting stories to tell. So what's wrong with receptionist gal? I know that is very young, but maybe she's very mature for her age?
Eric
First,
The only reason I stumbled when she mentioned it is that the subject was never brought up in prior conversations. An analogy for you might be the hot, tall hunk that seems perfect and then says on the third date, "By the way, I just got out of prison."
Now back to your question. I wouldn't really have any rules as to when you could ask your question. Perhaps you could tease a guy and say you've been a really bad girl and that perhaps you deserve a spanking? Heck, that date last night has really made an impression... :-)
TT
Eric,
It's not that I'm not interested in her but I work in a very rigid workplace and there are ranks and politics involved. :-)
PS: The woman mentioned they wanted the guys to post some more so thanks for coming back on with me to fan the conversations!
TT
TT:
You crack me up. Smart and witty and then goofy like a guy can be =)
Um...step away from the receptionist! A) you are too old for this trollop (LOL) B) she is far to young to being soooo forward omg...they grow them vixens fast these days ...i wouldve never passed a note to a 39 yr old superior when i was 22 but then again i wasn't as brash as 22yr olds can be these days (sigh the world scares me sometimes) c) Do not s*it where you eat...messing around at work can be AWFUL if there is an unhappy camper and it wouldn't be you i am sure. Huge regret....don't think you will always be able to control the youngster...she sounds like she is pretty confident on her own.
lol...the s and m chick...can't cook LOL
really enjoyed the update lol,
Lizzie
Lizzie,
FYI, here's what was funny about the dinner. We're eating italian food and 90% of the customers are cowboys and farmers. The minute she mentioned the whips and dominance stuff, I accidentaly said the term S&M too loudly. Almost the entire restaurant turned and looked at us. Pretty blonde of me eh? :-). I will say the food was great but the rolls were another story. They were rock hard and I could swear one of them walked out the front door.
TT
TT
You meet the most interesting women....
I'm with the other poster on the 22 yo. If something goes wrong and she gets mad at you she could scream "sexual harrassment". I'm not sure how PC it is in TX, but you could end up in lots of trouble.
Not worth the hassle when there are tons of women out there.
Good luck with the S&M gal....LOL
Hey TT,
I mostly lurk these days as I have absolutely nothing to report but I had to come out of hiding for the S/M girl...I had a similar thing happen to me a year or so ago. Second date, the guy tells me he's been doing a lot of soul searching and realized he's a dominant. (Or, in the "lifestyle" parlance, Dominant -- I did a lot of reading) I choked and almost spit my beer ... "do you mean what I think you mean?" I say. "Yes," he says, looking at me very intently. I ask him a lot of other questions and one is "Would there ever have to be more than two people in the bedroom?" "Only if we were helping somebody out," he says, rather enigmatically.
You might think I would turn and run for the hills...I didn't, yet. After three weeks of very intense dating and lots of salsa dancing and numerous long conversations (I didn't have anything else going on, and I was curious, and the attention was fun) HE dumped ME because I wasn't kinky enough and he didn't want to have to teach me about it. In retrospect, good grief, what a train wreck. I did get some really good advice from some people on the Taboos board, though. It's not exactly the kind of thing you can bring up over coffee with the other suburban single moms....
All I can say is ... good luck.
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