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Registered: 03-11-2004
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Thu, 08-11-2005 - 9:02am

The past month has been a blur as my world gets more complicated but I wouldn't say it's been bad or uninteresting. I've ditched my MO of not going out on multiple dates so read and enjoy (or get perturbed :-)).

Police Officer gal- Disappeared. Although I saw her the other day helping push a stalled car off the street in my neighborhood. I was tempted to honk.... :-(

Normal gal- After 3 fun dates, she's on vacation so no update. Possibilities are good but I'm unsure of the chemistry on my side. I know it's on her side. :-)

S&M gal- She called me up last night and I drove 50 miles out in the country to meet her. She's young and very cute but she's really into S&M and I'm not sure I want to be her master. Over a plate of spaghetti, she explained to me she wants her new man to be the DOM and she's wanting to be the SUB. After choking on my stale garlic bread, I teased her that I forgot my candle wax and whip. Unsure of where this is going. :-O

Connecticut gal: My high school friend was at a bar in CT and put her on the phone. She gave me her cell#, home phone #, e-mail address, etc. Now she wants to move to TX. Yeah, really.......

Hospital gal: She ghosted on me 2 months ago because she was dating another guy. She seems like a nice match and she reappeared the other day. But she's keeps insisting on me sending her pictures. This is making me uneasy if you know what I mean. For instance, her last e-mail read like this... "Do you have anything more revealing?" :-(

Receptionist gal: She's our receptionist at work and she's 22. I'm 39. The flirting has been intense and she's been passing me notes. I will not reveal the subjects here. I'm going to probably try to end the flirting very soon before it gets us in trouble. But I keep forgetting this is how I met my 2nd wife. :-{

Also, I don't think the board is becoming boring but we're just in a transition between old and new members and I think the current cl's are doing a great job. Eric, sorry to hear about your dad. My mom is in similiar circumstances at the present time so I can empathisize with you to some extent.

TT

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Registered: 12-05-2004
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 7:03am

aaah My mistake TT, I thought she had cooked dinner for you. (I imagined that the subject was brought up in the privacy of one's home lol)....

rock on =)
Lizzie

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Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 8:34am

Sposa,

In retrospect, she did mention some of the things during the date that you mentioned. But coming into the date, she didn't mention anything about this subject. That's what caught me a little off guard. I'm not sure if there will be a second date with her but being that this is on-line dating and I did meet her within one week, I'm not going to hold anything against her. They say variety is the spice of life and I've had my fair share of different people on my 1 1/2 year dating spree. If she would have mentioned it up front, I'm certain I wouldn't have met her since I can't see myself in black boxers, leather hood, whip, and a ball gag. Well, maybe the black boxers....

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Registered: 07-21-2004
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 8:57am
LMAO

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Registered: 06-16-2003
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 9:02am

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HEE!

I think it's admirable in a way that she brought it up on the first date. But it also indicates she's pretty serious about it ...

And from my understanding, d/s (or "D/s") doesn't have to involve pain though it often does. I guess there are degrees of involvement. Sometimes it's just in the bedroom, but sometimes it extends 24/7. There are a lot of resources online. I learned a lot and found it is far more common a 'thing' than I would have thought. Email me if you want to hear about the whole experience...

Sposa

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Registered: 03-11-2004
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 9:05am

CGUN,

It's not the water. Think of an angel and a devil all rolled into one and for 80% of the time it's neutral. But then the other 20% of the time it can go fairly far in either direction. But come to think of it, aren't we all like that to some extent? :-) Good to hear things are still going well with you and your man.

TT

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Registered: 07-24-2004
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 7:34pm

The OLD guy I've been dating for about five months now had a 10 minute coffee meet with a woman who had the same S&M proclivities.

She was a COMPLETE sub -- wanted to be dominated not only in the bedroom, but in every facet of her life.

They were at Starbuck's... the mayor of the town, whose children went to school with his, was at the next table.

I'm with Sposa -- I guess it's not so extraordinary anymore!!

Tracy

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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 11:09pm
There is a dating site (term used loosely) specifically for people into that (every variation). It's a lot easier to find a Dom or a sub partner if they stick to sites like that :)

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: talltx
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 11:18pm
Wow. Your life is completely interesting to me at this point! And thank you for the compliment... keep us updated on how things go... and trust your instincts sir! :)
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Registered: 02-15-2005
In reply to: talltx
Sat, 08-13-2005 - 11:01pm
Well, I could certainly loan you any whips and spurs you may require. I think I even still have hobbles from the days I was doing live cover breeding instead of AI.


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