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Registered: 02-02-2004
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Wed, 05-04-2005 - 7:00pm

Well I've been out with R twice now and he seems like a really nice guy. We have been talking on the phone every day.

I went away on a quick business trip yesterday and he called me to wish me a safe trip. We have tons in common and have very similar life experience.

The only red flag is that his divorce just became final in March. He's been living alone for about a year. So I don't have any great expectations here.

He also frequently asks if I've thought of him and what thoughts have I had. It makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable. I'm not sure what that is about. My cynical self thinks that he is trying to build instant intimacy so he can get in my pants...(fat chance!).

Sometimes I wonder if I am just too jaded or will always find something wrong.

Thoughts?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cbmroz
Wed, 05-04-2005 - 7:23pm

That sounds to me more like a whole lot of insecurity on his part than anything else...and that would make me uncomfortable as well! I'd just put it on your mental "watch" list and see what happens. And of course, continue to meet and date others.

When are you going out next? Have fun!

Sheri

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Registered: 03-18-2005
In reply to: cbmroz
Wed, 05-04-2005 - 7:25pm

He’s just fishing – I’ve met a lot of guys like that.

 
 
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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: cbmroz
Wed, 05-04-2005 - 7:25pm
Not sure when we will see each other next. He is going to his son's college graduation in Wyoming tomorrow. I'm sure I'll hear from him.
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Registered: 03-17-2005
In reply to: cbmroz
Wed, 05-04-2005 - 10:05pm

"I'm sure I'll hear from him."

Isn't that refreshing?