Update # 2 - Saga with Peter

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Registered: 09-16-2005
Update # 2 - Saga with Peter
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Fri, 10-28-2005 - 12:03pm

First of all, I want to thank all of you wonderful women who responded to my posting yesterday of my saga with Peter.

I still haven't heard from him as of yet this morning in reference to the last e-mail that I sent to him. I guess that tells me quite a bit about his character and exactly what our relationship meant. No matter what you are going through, it only takes 2 minutes to make a quick phone call.

But I have decided to take your advice and cut this loose, no more phone calls or e-mails. I don't deserve to be treated that way, nor do I want to pursue a relationship where there is dishonesty and non trust. I have been through that before and vowed to myself that I would never do that again. I should have trusted my gut instinct from the beginning and not gone any further. But I guess you live and learn.

Again, thank you for your kind words, your support and your honesty. It is very greatly appreciated. I already have 3 people that have contacted me that want to take me out this weekend. One of the guys I had already met before so I guess I will wait to see what happens?

Thanks again!!!

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 10-28-2005 - 12:57pm
You go girl, don't get discouraged for just one guy that may not be worth your tiniest thoughts! I've been in OLD for too long now and I have grown that thick skin that some of the girls here say you have to wear. I've gotten dissapointed many times, so when a guy doesn't call like he said he was, I immediately take points off, if he calls again I tell him right then that I don't appreciate when someone says they're going to do something and not do it, I don't take crap from anybody anymore. I have learned to value and appreciate who I am and what I have to offer and you gotta make them see that you're a great package and if they don't want it someone else will gladly. It has gotten me better results, there are few guys I am talking to right now and so far they've been good. I'm still lining up some others just in case. ;)
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 10-28-2005 - 5:31pm

Good luck! And while you are out around town running your errands and what not keep your eyes open for local cuties that might be staring at you and might be interested in meeting you!

R.I.