Update on Bachelor #1

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Update on Bachelor #1
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Sun, 09-04-2005 - 9:59pm

Hey- I got my usual text from Bachelor 1 today, and it is starting to get on my nerves. So, I decided to text him back... this is what I said: " Please forgive me for being so forward, but do I need to take a hint? I had a good time that day and I am just confused. It seems all we do now is message each other...."
So he called me almost immediately, but I didn't hear my phone ring. then he also texts me to tell me to call him. So about two hours later when I was able to call. I left him a message...His message to me was very apologetic and suggested that we have lunch on Tues. and see each other this coming weekend. He said he had been busy and I have a hard time getting a sitter during the week for my son,...So I don't know if he is interested, he said he was,... so we will see by his actions.
Just wanted to give you all an update.

As far as Bachelor 2.... still talking on the phone with him almost daily... Haven't seen him again,.. I keep putting him off.... I have mixed feelings about it.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 1:01am

What's stopping you from letting Bach #2 loose? You obviously are Not That Into Him. Let the guy go, why don't you?

amjay

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 7:26am
I may not be instantly attracted to him, but I am willing to see if something develops over a few weeks... Besides, I don't want to hurt him and I wouldn't mind having him as a friend.
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 10:16am

"So, anyway, I think I am going to let this guy know that it's just not going to work with us. I get a little sick feeling in my stomach when I think about seeing him again or even whent the phone rings."

Hasn't it already been a few weeks? You might want to let him know he's Just a Friend. Or is he your reserve guy?

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 8:59pm
I just don't know how to let him down. Yeah he could be my reserve guy.. nothing wrong with that!