Update on LD OLD

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2005
Update on LD OLD
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Tue, 05-31-2005 - 9:27pm

Thank you to those of you who posted for me on my frustration with LD OLD. I talked to him and things are better. In talking him we worked through how I felt disconnected. He explained that in his nature he typically withdraws when he is overwhelmed instead of sharing it others. He has been under a lot of stress lately so he was hiding out. The second issue with me feeling like the relationship was one-sided was because he likes getting the romantic notes and such, but doesn't send in return. After talking about this, he said that he didn't think about it since I seemed so secure. He's agreed to make more of an effort wtih the little things.

Thank you for encouraging me to talk to him, rather than panicking and running.

Will stay on the board and keep you updated. I know things aren't going to be easy, but am willing to put in the effort as long as we keep communicating.

Kel

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2004
Tue, 05-31-2005 - 9:39pm

I am really glad to hear that you are working things out with your LD guy.

Good luck!!

amjay