Update..for any who may be interested...

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Registered: 06-01-2005
Update..for any who may be interested...
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Thu, 12-08-2005 - 3:54pm

Ronnie and I have been dating for a little over three months.

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Registered: 01-27-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 12:10pm

Hi there Jodie,

Im happy things are working out for you. Just a nugget of advice. Make sure you both sit down and discuss whether or not you are moving towards marriage (if that is a goal for you). Also, I think it would be a good idea to set a time frame ie. "in a year we will get married" if thats where you want this relationship to go. A lot of the time women ASSUME that just because they are moving in with their bf that instantly means he wants to marry her. Often, guys aren't even thinking that far down the line. Its best to talk it ALL out and lay it all on the table before you commit to something like this. Then you can truly enjoy the experience and not find out later on the two of you had different goals.

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