UPDATE.....Kanye West Dilemna
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| Thu, 11-17-2005 - 8:58am |
Ms. Peanut, I cut and pasted your message and emailed it to him. As such my girlfriend and I will have a blast at the concert.
UPDATE........
This morning I received this email from him:
"What are you talking about. I have called you several times. I was very interested in you, as far as the concert I did want to go with you. I did want to see you. You have to understand you are the one that had me waiting till you got ready to see me, but I have called you with no reply. I really don't care about the concert, but I do want to see you again."
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I can't lie, was actually flattered by the email. Now what?? Yes, I did suggest us getting together on Saturday after the birthday party, but obviously he felt like I was making him wait. I know I'm not planning or suggesting future dates.
Ladies, your thoughts??

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You have all the missed phone calls and waiting around to contend with on this. This is where the two of you got confused.
Since you didn't hear from him you will have to uninvite him to the concert, you've already invited your friend, and you will be with coworkers and managemtnt. This guy is not right for the situation because you don't know him well enough. Keep your dating life away from your job for the time being.
The next time you call him and have to leave a message, say, "Obviously you aren't available now, I am going to try calling you at 8PM tonight." That way he will know to be available and have his cell phone on. Then firm up specific plans for the weekend during the call.
OK, I guess I'm confused. Did this guy "try" to call you several times? I got from your previous posts that he had not tried to call you nor had he left any messages.
True, you have already invited your friend, so I'd say he's out as a concert date, but it sounds like he's still interested. I'm just confused on the phone call issue. And lastly, why didn't he e-mail you sooner if he was still interested?
Chamey, I agree with what ya said... the only thing that worries me is the statement: <<"Obviously you aren't available now, I am going to try calling you at 8PM tonight.">> All I would suggest is toning it down a bit b/c the way that would come across IMO is a bit harsh and makes the guy wrong.
We met, I suggested we hook up on Saturday, I called after the birthday party on Saturday, he called me on Monday and Tuesday. I wanted him to call Saturday and/or Sunday, he didn't so I thought he wasn't interested.
Sounds to me like revisionist history in response to your email because he doesn't want to be seen as the bad guy.
HAS he really called, since you called him back? And I see there's no apology or acknowledgement about the missed date...
I'd give this one a miss.
Sheri
Yes he called me twice and as far as Saturday, it wasn't a planned date (as I stated) but more of a I have a party I'm attending and am available both days so I will call you after the party and we can decide to hook up!
I replied to his email stating I would like to continue talking and see where it goes. I, of course, am NOT suggesting any future hookups or planned dates. I'm going to just chill (let him lead and pursue)! I'm still talking with others, so hopefully doing so will keep me grounded. See what happens when you feel butterflies for someone! (smile)
Did he actually respond to your phone message asking about the concert from a couple days ago, or did he wait until you sent the email to respond?
Yes, we tend to overlook and excuse a lot when we have the butterflies ;-) (I've done, too, so I understand!).
See what happens, but I wouldn't hold my breath on this one.
Sheri
Yes, he called twice after that phone message, but left a generic message "hey, this is G, give me a call"! He replied to the email since I didn't return his calls. Bottom line I just didn't feel he was pursuing me at the speed I think he should have been. No, I'm not holding my breath on this one (or anyone) and for myself I need to slow down and go with the flow!
I'm just jumping back online and got overwhelmed cause the first guy I met, gave me sparks! It hadn't happen in so long, I got totally carried away. I usually try to stay aware of things, and should know better, but I guess it proves, I'm HUMAN! (smile)
If anything, most here keep it real and that helps!!!!
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