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| Wed, 08-30-2006 - 5:23pm |
We had a fight with my boyfriend that I met on-line. Later he activated his profile dating web-site. It was hidden before, because we both treated our relations as serious and agreed not to date anyone else.
I was upset too and created new profile on that site with pictures, that he never seeing before. Those were the pictures from the time when I was doing modelling, they are professionally made and about 7 y.o. I created similar profile with little changes. I know that he likes tall women with long hair, so it was easy for him to find me again.
So he started talking with me and I couldn't resist and responded. I tried to give him a hint, saying "Do you think we met before?", but he didn't get it. He started telling me compliments and asking more questions about me. I was responding very briefly, because I wasn't sure how to behave in this situation.
Then I just left our conversation. Next morning my e-mail was full of messages from him, saying how much he enjoyed our talk and that he wants to know me better. Good thing is that I know he is missing me and that's why he chose a woman that looks like me, hoping that it will help him to forget me. Bad thing is that he can fall in love with my virtual twin and it will just separate us. Or maybe he guessed who I am and also playing this game with me?!
Is it a good idea to continue this game with him and then make a date and show up? What would be your reaction if you had similar situation?
As for real life relations, he sent me 1 e-mail, 1 sms and 1 yahoo mess, saying "hello", but I was really upset with him and took my time to respond. And now I am afraid it's too late because he is getting addicted to that "virtual twin"...
I was upset too and created new profile on that site with pictures, that he never seeing before. Those were the pictures from the time when I was doing modelling, they are professionally made and about 7 y.o. I created similar profile with little changes. I know that he likes tall women with long hair, so it was easy for him to find me again.
So he started talking with me and I couldn't resist and responded. I tried to give him a hint, saying "Do you think we met before?", but he didn't get it. He started telling me compliments and asking more questions about me. I was responding very briefly, because I wasn't sure how to behave in this situation.
Then I just left our conversation. Next morning my e-mail was full of messages from him, saying how much he enjoyed our talk and that he wants to know me better. Good thing is that I know he is missing me and that's why he chose a woman that looks like me, hoping that it will help him to forget me. Bad thing is that he can fall in love with my virtual twin and it will just separate us. Or maybe he guessed who I am and also playing this game with me?!
Is it a good idea to continue this game with him and then make a date and show up? What would be your reaction if you had similar situation?
As for real life relations, he sent me 1 e-mail, 1 sms and 1 yahoo mess, saying "hello", but I was really upset with him and took my time to respond. And now I am afraid it's too late because he is getting addicted to that "virtual twin"...

Hi,
Please be careful, this is the type of game that could backfire and where you could get burned. I see where you are coming from. Maybe it’s a bit legitimate for you to try and get back to him for activating his profile.... But, don’t forget that the emotions of your twin are also your own. From what I can tell, your emotions are already troubling you of else you would not have posted on the subject here. My advice: stop this game now.... you can ghost (i.e. never log on as your twin again). Or secondly, you could come clean and tell him about your feelings in this situation.
Don’t play virtual games you will play yourself in the end….
Hope that helps
Take care
W.
Edited 8/31/2006 8:42 pm ET by funnywinnie10
I couldn't disagree with deb more (sorry deb).