Wait another week or move on???

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Registered: 10-12-2008
Wait another week or move on???
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Sun, 06-06-2010 - 11:14am

I’ve been having an amazing connection with a guy that

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Tue, 06-15-2010 - 8:56pm
It all depends on how much you value your life.
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Thu, 06-10-2010 - 1:11am

"Patience"?? Youve been MORE than patient. Im glad you decided to move on.


I hate to say theres a good chance this guy isnt even single if he is so reluctant to have a phone conversation.

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Tue, 06-08-2010 - 4:10pm

I don't think it's an exercise in patience to hold off on moving from email to phone, Dear. He is hiding something, perhaps in a committed relationship or ending one. I think he's yanking your chain. Wasting your time. Sorry.

"I will let him know that a month is a substantial amount of time to know if he would like to move to phone contact and if not, that's okay but I'm not looking for an internet-only connection."

I think you should absolutely let him know that. If I were you I'd say that and also give him your number, tell him you'll be around tonight or tomorrow and that you're looking forward to his call.

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Registered: 10-12-2008
Tue, 06-08-2010 - 8:01am

Thanks for commenting on my post. You're advice gave me the extra push to finally move on in my mind and with my actions. I won't be checking for his emails anymore but if he does write back I will let him know that a month is a substantial amount of time to know if he would like to move to phone contact and if not, that's okay but I'm not looking for an internet-only connection.


We did talk about "patience" as being one of the qualities we would like to practice but I think that I've been patient long enough and at first I didn't want to feel guilty of

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Registered: 12-02-2009
Tue, 06-08-2010 - 12:28am

I’ve been having an amazing connection with a guy that

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