We had a wonderful evening!

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We had a wonderful evening!
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 1:33am
I'm back from seeing Rob tonight. He picked me up on his way back into town, met my 15y son and then we drove to his house. We had another wonderful evening, spending more time talking and getting to know each other this time.

OMG, he makes me so happy! The more I get to know about him, the more I like this man. I did tell him I was a bit humiliated by my behavior at the dance Friday night, that I had never done anything like that before, but he was sweet about it.

We talked of quite a few plans to do things together, like movies, etc, and I told him I want to come to his gym to watch him workout. But then I will have to drag him home and have my way with him! {grin}

It was so hard to leave him tonight. But he has to get up at 4AM to go to work, so we had to part. He told me he will be dreaming of me tonight...

Oh, and I told him I had sent him the link to our song, and he's going to get it burnt to a CD for us! Isn't he sweet??? {smile}

~*~ Catherine

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 9:50am
Catherine, I am extrememly happy to see things going so well with you and Rob. I have to say it sounds like he is truly interested in you and you two are really hitting it off. Does your son like him?? That is important in my life, I know. Well, I wish you the best and that is really sweet that you two already have a song. Well, if you met at a dance I suppose you would! lol Goodluck darling!


Gail:)

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 10:45am


Yes, though he found Rob very nervous. I was upstairs still getting ready when Rob arrived, so they were alone together for a few minutes. But Josh liked him, and he likes how happy I am with Rob.

Josh was teasing me when I got home last night, but I know that as long as I am happy that's all that matters to him.

In some ways I feel like Rob will want to get serious very quickly. That terrifies me! I have been on my own for 25 years now, and perhaps a bit commitment-phobic. {sigh...}

~*~ Catherine

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:06am
Catherine, I can relate to you so much right now. That was my ultimate decision about Mark. I could not committ to the man. We are still friends, no doubt, but I couldnt do it. The whole move in, marriage, and so on. EW! Scarey!!! I think I may be allergic to marriage. No. Im kidding, but I can relate to that. Something trivial for you to know. I find that the younger men, just want sex(which ok), but no maturity and no intellectual conversation will come. With the older men, I find they are want marriage and the whole deal. My goal is to find a man, my age or older, someone with conversation skills and intellect, and someone who doesnt want the committment right away. I just wanna date. Ya know? I never used to be that way either. I used to be the one in a hurry to know where things were going. I was a real pest now that I think back. lol I now live in the moment. Just date, with the happy times, and the butterflies and leave it at that. We have all the time in the world to just enjoy each other and live in sin. lol anywho. Goodluck with Rob!


Gail:)

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:10am
Awwww Catherine! How cute!!! I'm so glad things are working out so well for you and Rob, you most definately deserve it! What does your son think of him? Keep us posted as to how things are going!

Lindsay

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:33am


Well the "living in sin" part sounds delicious! {grin}

But I am realizing I no longer have "all the time in the world" left... I am thinking that I may just have to "suck it up" and get over my fears! {smile}

It doesn't have to be tomorrow, but I think I am going to work on being willing to take that huge step of commitment, should he ask! Yikes!!!!!

BUT - and this is a huge BUT - I certainly won't be the one pushing for it...

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OMG - he just phoned me from work - just to say Hi! He is such a sweetheart! {smile}

~*~ Catherine

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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 2:40pm
Catherine, living in sin is delicious. lol Ok, so you wanna take the plunge, go on. lol Dont say I didnt tell ya. No, IM kidding. I think it is great that this guy does that much for you. He called to say hi, awwwww. sweetie.

Well, just so you know...i got home with the boys lastnight and there was a rose on my door. Now....that is from my date saturday night. yes, I had a date. Not saying anything more til I know more. lol

Gail:)