Weird times 2

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Registered: 12-06-2006
Weird times 2
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Thu, 12-28-2006 - 3:01am

I've posted on the other board and frankly I'm not going to waste my time with this individual anymore, but...There's this young guy I met on myspace and dated a few times, he stopped dating me. But, kept insisting he wanted to be friends, but it was internet only. Well, I let him have it, called him a liar, shady, an emotional drain, a leech, needy, insecure, etc. He deleted me 3 weeks ago. Now, he's back:

Him: "I'm sorry i had to find you from another profile, its an older one as you can see... but anyhow. I wanted to make peace... you may be done with me, and by words i would seem so... sadly, i do not want to end a note on a bad one. It was christmas, i felt like calling and wishing you and your family a happy holidays. but not sure how you would react... i do not want to echange heated words. i just want to make peace. all is to be forgiven, and all to be dust in the past... Hope you can find it in yourself to forgive me, as i do for you regardless of your answer...

With peace.
PS I don't check this mail ever. you can feel free to write me on the other site if you wish.
God bless and happy new years."

Ok, here's my confusion. We weren't even good friends, and before he deleted me, I told him I just wanted him for sex anyway. So, why would a man come back to someone who talked to him like he was a dog?? Also, why would he use a different profile to contact me? He deleted me, both our profiles are private, but I didn't block him because I didn't think I would hear from him again, so why the different profile?

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: purity2006
Thu, 12-28-2006 - 5:54am
My answer from the other board still stands hon, sorry.
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Registered: 07-20-2001
In reply to: purity2006
Thu, 12-28-2006 - 9:16am
You just wanted him for sex? If you are serious, I can understand why he might have deleted you if he's looking for a relationship. Some guys even want more than just sex. Takes all kinds I guess.
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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 1:54am
Sorry, cant give you much of an opinion since it all seems a bit odd to me. I say, move on.
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Registered: 12-06-2006
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 3:51am
Hey, what kind of dogs are those? Do they shed? I want to get one for my family.
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Registered: 12-06-2006
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 3:58am

Mitsy2: "You just wanted him for sex? If you are serious, I can understand why he might have deleted you if he's looking for a relationship. Some guys even want more than just sex. Takes all kinds I guess."

No, I wanted him for a relationship. We were dating last summer and then he started lying and breaking dates. He said I "scared him" because he felt I was pushing for a committment. But, he still wanted to talk online.

About 5 weeks ago, I told him I wanted to date him and that i was interested in him, and he said, "I'm sorry." But, he still wanted to talk, all the time just talking, blah, blah. And he was seeing this girl. They are now in a relationship. When I found out they got in a relationship, I told him I didn't want him in my life anymore, in any aspect. I told him completely off. Then I told him that I only wanted him for sex (that wasn't true). Then he deleted me, but is back trying to reastablish some sick friendship. Well, I'm not going to be in his life at all if I can't have him for a relationship or at the minimum for sex. I just can't deal with him.

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Registered: 07-20-2001
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 9:03am
Surely you will find someone better. He sounded like a guy who could not be faithful anyway. I'm sort of at an impasse right now with anyone I've met online. At the moment, I don't have the gumption to actively search again. Maybe after the first of the year.
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Registered: 04-29-2003
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 11:01am

Don't get defensive with what I'm going to write because it may seem a bit direct.

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Registered: 07-21-2004
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 11:14am

I went and found your posts on the other board and to be honest with you, I really don't see how he's stalking you or being a psychopath or a liar, unless there are things that have happened that you didn't

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Registered: 07-21-2004
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 11:20am

Sorry to sidetrack the thread, purity, but sp, you have a dating advice blog?

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Registered: 12-06-2006
In reply to: purity2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 4:49pm
small peanut, I never had sex with him. He wanted it though and tried several times.

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