well, that kinda turns me off

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Registered: 05-27-2005
well, that kinda turns me off
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 6:41pm
The guy I've been chatting with on IM and who I like, told me he uses Adultfriendfinder now. So I decided to sign up just to see if he is there and what he put in his profile. I found out I can't view profiles without paying so that was out of the question but I did see what he's looking for and that's what turns me off. Geez, I thought he was a normal guy but those things kinda sicken me. How can anybody like those types of things?


Edited 7/19/2005 7:05 pm ET ET by dream_angel2005

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Wed, 07-20-2005 - 4:21pm
I never knew what tv/tg and whatever else there was is either. I was going to ask here but didn't get around to it. I can't believe this guy is like this. He doesn't put me in mind of that type of person but now I know. Was I ever fooled.
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Registered: 07-24-2004
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 6:45pm

I'd venture that the threesome stuff is pretty garden-variety these days, but he's also interested in transsexuals? Tranvestites? (yes, that's what the initials mean...) If you thought were going to have a one-on-one relationship with this guy, I'd run for the hills. You'd just be one of the gang.

Tracy

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Registered: 05-20-2005
Sat, 07-23-2005 - 5:29pm
Last I heard, adults like to have sex.
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Registered: 04-16-2004
Sun, 07-24-2005 - 10:17pm

Um, yeah. You are correct. However, I think the OP was having an issue with the type of sexual activities the man was pursuing. If she is interested in a monogomus relationship, he would not be a good choice.

Also, I think it goes beyond whether or not you enjoy sex. When sex actually comes into play with in a relationship is a very personal thing. Some people are comfortable with it early on, while others may prefer to get to know their potential partner better.

As with his sexual interests, it a matter of personal preference.

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