What are Men REALLY looking for??
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What are Men REALLY looking for??
| Tue, 05-10-2005 - 4:46pm |
Since we have the topic what women are really looking for (courtesy of eric_35m) - I was curious to see what men are Really (key word: Really)looking for.
Try to get this from a man's perspective or ladies - what do YOU feel a man is looking for??
Seriously are we talking the Britney Spears dominatrix 23 year old get up, or the Paris Hilton over-sexed celebutante wanna be, or the Star Jones over-hyped diva, or the all around good looking american girl like Sandra Bullock.
Seriously - if you could go into a store and "make a woman" what would be the attributes you would want - physically and personality.
I am curious to see this........

I'll play... :-)
I will go by the rules and be very picky, since we are assuming that I could choose all of her characteristics:
~~~~~Physical~~~~~~
Hair - Brunette
Eyes - Dark brown
Skin tone - Olive
Hair Length - Not important, but not shaved or anything too short
Body type - voluptuous - I don't go for the waiflike figure at all, I like a woman who
has hips and breasts. Think Catherine Bell (actress in the TV series JAG) or even
Kate Winslet. I definitely like natural, no fake boobs.
~~~~Personality~~~~~
-Has a good sense of humor, and can make me laugh.
-Smart
-Very sweet and caring.
-Not too moody, but I don't mind if she's feisty at times. I'm really
laid back and easy going, so I would want her to be a little the opposite.
-Likes to watch sports occasionally.
-Very trustworthy and honest.
-Sensitive
~~~~Misc~~~~
-Great cook!
-Loves to have sex and has an adventurous side
-Sometimes romantic - likes to leave love notes, special surprises, etc.
-Takes care of herself - does not have to be in great shape or anything, just healthy.
-Loves animals
-Understands that sometimes she needs her "girl time" and I need my "guy time".
Ok, so that's about it.
Like so many of you on the other thread, I am much less concerned about the "looks"
part of the equation than I am the personality. Again, if I was building a woman for
me I might go for the type that I tend to be attracted to, but honestly I am not all
that picky in real life. Of course there has to be attraction, but a lot of that has
to do with her personality.
It's definitely a subjective thing, and hard to explain in words. A good example is my dental hygenist (I know, lol). She's about my age, and although I think she's just "cute", she has a terrific personality. She had me laughing and very interested
in all that she was saying. I would ask her out in a heartbeat if she didn't have a bf.
Eric
Thank you for being so specific - I tried to answer your posting as well as to what women really want (at least me) and tried to be very specific also.
I have to know - What city do you live in??
:0)
Mari
eric.....YOU NAILED IT!
PG agrees with everything you wrote.
Great post Eric. If I was single - I'd almost fit your match! With two exceptions: That I may be slightly older than you and that I'm not "natural" anymore (LOL).
Maryanne0424
Fun game!!! I'm 57, married for the second time, recently returned from
an affair that didn't work out. Think what you will of me for that history.
The easy part is the physicality because frankly its not all that important
to me. I've dated and married all "types". If you saw my 10 most-significant
SOs side-by-side you'd wonder how they could all be so very different in
body.
Height: under my 6'-0" (altho 6'-5" did appeal)
Weight: doesn't much matter. 123 lb was a bit too petite (ribs showed thru)
and 320 lb was a bit too heavy (health concerns more than anything).
150-250 lb seemed just fine. I'm 230-240 myself right now.
Body style: Rubenesque (BBW).AA thru D but prefer larger breasts.
And curves.
Eyes: don't care as long as they are bright and look at me occasionally
in a loving way.
Hair: colour unimportant, length unimportant
Skin: unimportant. Prefer white but only because I am Caucasian.Freckles,
moles, scars, rashes, blotches, other "imperfections" welcome.
I'd like her to be honest, frank, open, trustworthy.
Adequate cook. Some decorating skills (besides supervising!).
Bright, caring of others. Can be moody but not all the time and needs
to recognize it of herself and be prepared to forewarn me; remember,
humour helps us thru our days at work & home.
Willing to give and take in the bedroom.Not hung up on simultaneous orgasms.
Clean of person but not obsessive; spontaneous sweaty sex can be a turn-on.
Has hobbies different than mine but we must both be willing to attend
each others' shows & functions occasionally.
Must love not just tolerate my dogs and cats.
most men, except perhaps for those who post here or those who try to tell women answers that satisfy the woman, will say that they want someone they get along with well enough who will have sex with them.