what are the odds?

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Registered: 01-31-2004
what are the odds?
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 12:09pm
How strange is it that someone who is an MD spells tonight as tonite on more than one occasion?
I am foreign and I am not sure if that was a misspell or what?
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 2:15pm
For a doctor,
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Registered: 01-31-2004
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 2:26pm
Thanks Phoenix,
It's just this one word persistently in several different variations "nite", "tonite", etc.
I will try to loosen up a bit :)
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Registered: 02-07-2005
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 2:31pm

Hi Ivos,

That's funny. Reminds me of the young guys who send emails or IM's to me saying:
How RU 2nite? Just not the way I write, but everyone has a different style.

Sunshine

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 3:08pm
Funny, but his is 46 years young. I tend to think it must be a habit for him.
I guess we are meeting tomorrow. He has been calling me every night. I have my reservations about him (previous post) but I will give this a shot. Will not and I repeat will not expect a lot so not to get disapointed :)
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Registered: 02-07-2005
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 3:53pm

Hi Ivos,

That's good that you aren't expecting anything with him and the meeting. I think that is one of the hardest things about doing OLD, not to let yourself get expectations going before you meet someone in real life.

When going to a new meeting, I try to think of it as if I'm just meeting a person, but that's it, not thinking about it too much and if something good does happen then great, otherwise it's not a loss or anything. But I hope this one is good for you.

Sunshine

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 4:37pm
Sunshine,
I think it's even more important to keep expectations in check after the 1st meet. I was very apprehensive meeting the lawyer man and I even cancelled our 1st meet but he managed to wiggle in and I was totally smitten by him on our 1st date.
I think it's wise to keep your feelings in check until the other person shows consistent interest/effort in you and asks to be exclusive.