what to do now??

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2009
what to do now??
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Sun, 07-19-2009 - 5:12pm

Finally met the guy after

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: refiki
Sun, 07-19-2009 - 6:23pm

I would just let it go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-30-2008
In reply to: refiki
Thu, 07-23-2009 - 6:38pm
Let it go....theres so much else to focus on...like the next date!!!



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Registered: 02-08-2009
In reply to: refiki
Fri, 07-24-2009 - 12:45am

Just let it go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: refiki
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 5:33pm
Validation should not be based on finding some guy to make you feel whole and complete.


Maybe that's true for you, but it's offensive for you to speak for someone else. Who are you to say what someone "should" need for validation? You certainly don't speak for me, nor do I think you speak for most other women.


The fact is, we were created as social beings. For some of us, knowing that we're destined to be alone is something that's very difficult to live with.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2009
In reply to: refiki
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 9:57pm

Once again, you’ve posted a rather sad jaw dropper.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: refiki
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 10:21pm

I believe God wants me to be alone.

And I never said most women feel as I do, only that you can't possibly speak for all of us. You certainly don't speak for me and have no idea what I need in my life.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: refiki
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 11:23pm

I don't do online dating anymore since I'm dating someone. How could I be hung up in it?

I don't need a therapist, either. That's kind of offensive, don't you think? Just because someone thinks differently doesn't mean they're unstable or in need of help.

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In reply to: refiki
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 10:14am

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