What do you consider a "turn on"?
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What do you consider a "turn on"?
| Wed, 08-17-2005 - 11:10am |
We have talked about things that we find in profiles that turn us off...such as elusion to sex, body type etc.

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I know you are probably right....most men that have that (passion, etc.) down may want *only* sex, but then a few may just want passion in their lives along with everything else, no? Maybe I am just thinking too simple. LOL.
Sara
All that (most) men have to do is see the word "Passion" and parts of their body are responding by going...."Booyahhhh!"
CL-Truewild1969
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His words are really the turn on. I like someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously. I like wit and someone who's even slightly self-deprecating. The biggest turn on for me is someone who is artistic. Musicians, artists, writers, photographers...no actors though. I'm a creative person and need a like soul to inspire and inspire me. The next big turn on for me is someone who is well-travelled. People who embrace other cultures are curious, adaptable and adventurous. I'm also drawn to guys who've achieved a higher level of education. I look for the things we have in common first then unusual or different interests that pique my curiousity.
Chele
I also look at height, primarily because so many guys lie. If he says anything under 5'10, I immediately subtract a couple inches.
And the kids section is important too. I stay clear of anyone who has "3 or more" listed or who wants kids (I don't, plus I'm 43, do the math. That said, I'm amazed how many guys who "definitely" want kids contact me. Proof once again how few men actually read profiles).
I've learned to pay more attention to the age range they're looking for because apparently I'm "too old" for a lot of guys my age - you know the type, the ones looking for 21-30 year olds.
My preference is to meet someone with no kids and yes I want kids. However I have dated men with “one child” if he’s someone I have a lot in common with��so we all have preferences but that doesn’t mean it always works out that way. I’d write him – you have nothing to loose right?
SP
PS Keep in mind preferences are not necessarily deal breakers.
Edited 8/17/2005 3:10 pm ET ET by small_peanut2005
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