What do you consider a "turn on"?

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What do you consider a "turn on"?
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Wed, 08-17-2005 - 11:10am

We have talked about things that we find in profiles that turn us off...such as elusion to sex, body type etc.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-17-2005 - 3:17pm

Yes, I do think he really thinks he could meet someone who wants children but doesn't yet have any...and there are women out there who fit that demographic (most likely in their 30s). Sure, he's limiting his options, but that's his perogative. I do think there are people out there who want to be parents, but don't see themselves as stepparents. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, it just *is* what it is.

That said, there's no harm in contacting him...if he's not interested because you have a child, then oh well!

Sheri

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Wed, 08-17-2005 - 3:23pm
Oh, I also look at what age range they are looking for. If they are looking for women as young as 18-25, then I don't think they are the type of guy for me. If someone is looking for someone in the 28-30 and up range, that is a plus.

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Registered: 07-12-2005
Wed, 08-17-2005 - 5:46pm
I look at the height almost immediatly. If they aren't taller than me, I don't want 'em. It is just a personal preference. Aside from that, I look for witty comments and little quirks that set them apart. After that, I look at the clothes they are wearing in their picture. It says a lot about a person. Laid back, or metro-sexual ya know?
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Registered: 07-03-2004
Wed, 08-17-2005 - 8:52pm

My never-varying screening process:

Search out men, 40-49 and look at
age range they're looking for,
then their picture,
and THEN I read the profile.

Profile:

Zoom right to marital status (or lack thereof!)
then, do they want kids (I definitely do not want any more)
then, what body type they prefer.
AND THEN I read the essay.

I will never respond to people with these words in their profiles:


fireplace
cuddling
passion
baggage
my friends say

***

Other than that, I am so horny I don't care if he's 3 feet tall or how many *extra* pounds he's got!

amjay

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Registered: 04-21-2003
Wed, 08-17-2005 - 9:35pm
Verbal wit.
Very rare, but occasionally I find it. I fall in love with wit.
(Now that I have given my preference, I'll read some of the other posts.)
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Registered: 01-01-2004
Wed, 08-17-2005 - 9:41pm
My turn-ons are men who own or like animals or have a picture with an animal, someone who is at least 5'10, someone who is not an avid outdoorsman, witty profiles that are funny and interesting, guys that make more $ than me and someone with a sense of style.
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Wed, 08-17-2005 - 9:45pm
The hottest men are the brainiacs with a good combo of wit and humor...

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