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| Thu, 03-02-2006 - 11:55pm |
1- FWB and with recently dead mother is back in 2 weeks from South America for good. keeps chatting with me on MSN, tells me about his job prospects in my city, his plans for the summer, places where we should hang out together... he is coming to town in 2 weeks but will only see me one week after he is back (friends birthday on first Friday, St patties celebration for the weekend! then interview in a different city on Monday) so he can only see me the next Wed!! hello!!! I take it he is NOT INTERESTED! but then why does he want to chat and talk about his plans! I could not care less about his freakin plans when I have tons of work in the office (I do care to listen if I was at home doing nothing though)
2- Gorgeous French guy (but more like Blonde Russian guys ;) who is 5 yrs my junior is back in the picture. this is the guy I made out with on drunken spree on NYE. He is part of the group now and I see him once or twice a week. He is HOT! and is interesting but acts a little immature at times. I 31 he 26. I find him v. attractive but afraid things become serious and then I realise we are not compatible because of age and us wanting different things from life. I know he cares and is v. sensitive guy so I dont want to hurt him by making a rushed decision ( but also know if FWB in point 1- calls I will drop French Guy and run for the guy who is 3 yrs older than me and have more experience in life!!) and I agree it is not fair for French guy
3- Non-educated guy is on hold until after the weekend, he will call me on Monday for first time chit-chat
so here's what I am wishing for: the stability of 3 , looks and spontaneity of 2 and the confidence and assertiveness of 1 to make the BF of my dreams!
but it does not work this way so which one should I pursue. I think I need to remove the other two from the picture if I want a serious relation with the one I choose.
Or does it seem like None of the above case??
PS : Bored with being single and have no issues with men in general
~~~Edit
sorry for the long post. Hope someone bothers to read! I try to be concise but I m never!
Edited 3/3/2006 12:01 am ET by juliara2003

I don't know the background, but if the first guy is really FWB then he is not a good bet for a serious relationship. Not saying it can't happen, but unlikely.
Re: the other two - if you haven't even spoken with #3 yet, it doesn't sound like you have enough basis to choose to pursue a relationship with him, so why not stay in contact with him and the second guy for now? If you spend a little time with both chances are you will soon get a better sense of whether you are compatible.