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|Wed, 08-27-2003 - 8:52pm|
>>>>Have you ever wondered if your MR. RIGHT will ever show up… or if he even exists?
I wrote this for you…To you. But please, do us both a favor, don't read this unless you can honestly say that you too are looking for the love of your life.
Yes, I have sent this ‘from-my-heart’ letter to a few, select other women that I hoped were are as special as you seem to be. BUT the reality is - this letter is meant for one and only one woman. If you are the person I wrote this for, you will know it as you read this. If not, stop reading the instant you discover this message is not about you, to you or describes you…
It's hard to talk about yourself in this format, so I asked some of my “girl” friends what they thought I should tell you. What they said made me feel really good, "Allen, sometimes you surprise us. You are the most confident, self-assured person we know and now you come to us with a question only a teenage schoolboy would ask. We would tell her you are kind and gentle...the kind of gentleness that only strong men possess. You have a very sexy way about you, you know how to treat a woman so special and you make life exciting and fun, just being around you.” What else can I say to that but... Thank God for great friends!
If I were to ask you what you think is the perfect man for you at this exact time in your life, what kind of images would flash through your mind: maybe what you care about is looks, maybe money, maybe sex or freedom, father figure, security, maybe a great listener. Ask yourself what is it you find attractive and important, right now? As you ponder that, here is a little something about me, see if I fit into your impression of the ideal man…
Ah, but first let me point out something… You, like me, are searching the internet… Why should we be dancing on the keyboard when we could be happy together? You, like me, can't deny you are looking for just the right person to make your life whole and give it eternal meaning.
If you agree, I may be the man you've always dreamed of…
A little about me… I'm an entrepreneur who worked hard to become financially independent. I won't waste your time or anyone else's. I am very kind but up front too. I know what I want in life and I'm very sincere in my search.
I'm tall, dark, handsome, self-confident, caring, intelligent (three degrees), adventurous, passionate, great sense of humor, enjoy traveling, sporting events and goal oriented. A man of integrity. I'm very affectionate, a good communicator, dynamic, charming, generous, and a risk taker. And I know that I am blessed.
My baggage could fit into a thimble. I don't want a “let's be friends first” relationship. I am looking for someone to love and I am ready to get started, but that person must have their act together: No druggies, no drunks, no smokers, no emotional roller coaster rides, and no weak or wimpy types that don't think they are good enough for me. Although I have no children of my own, I absolutely adore children and definitely open to becoming part of, or creating, a family.
I'm emotionally and physically available. I've made my mind up: I'm going to find one exceptional woman to shower with love and affection, to hold, squeeze, kiss and caress, to communicate with, share thoughts and feelings with, to be active with. I enjoy a variety of activities, but most of all I would like someone special to do things with.
I'm going to find a woman who has confidence in herself, is truthful, assertive, considerate, loves to laugh and have fun. A woman who is done wasting time with “men” that do not appreciate her, refuse to grow up, or do not understand a woman’s worth. The woman I'm going to find has always known that I've been out there looking for her but haven't found her... until now.
I want a woman whom I find attractive, not Cosmo magazine. I want to look at you and wonder how I could be so lucky as to find someone so sexy. I'm going to find a special woman I can't wait to come home to, take places, share ideas with, learn from, grow with and most of all will be my best and dearest friend. She must be able to accept gifts and compliments.
If you… and yes I do mean YOU… are this special woman please send me a message now. In any moment a decision you make can change the course of your life forever... the very next email you send or receive could be the one single thing that causes the floodgates to open, and all of the things that you've been waiting for to fall into place.
Are you thinking to yourself, "This guy is too good to be real," or "This guy sounds like he thinks a lot of himself?" If so, you might be right. You know what is wrong with big corporations, schooling and the world in general today? We are taught to focus on our weaknesses. Focusing on your weaknesses creates self-skepticism and self doubt. Instead, we need to discover our strengths and work as teams with others who fulfill our weaknesses. When you focus on your talents, you excel at whatever it is you do and your self-confidence skyrockets. Maybe I am supremely self-confident and to me that is good. Yes, I do have some weaknesses, and that is exactly why men and women need each other… to compliment each other and fulfill each other's soft spots. You see, I know I need the right person as well as yearn for her. Are you her?