What does he want??

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
What does he want??
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Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:40am
I just met a guy online, he loves my pictures, thinks I am hot. We finally had a date, turned out it was fine. He said he wanted to have 2nd date with me. However, he seems never had time with me, we do not talk much(either from the phone or online chatting) He always seems busy, he said his work is very busy. (his work is not a regular 8 hours kind.) He always online late or no online, no calls sometimes. He makes me think whether he really likes me or just want to get me in bed. At same time, he keeps saying he likes me, he wants to kiss me and hold me. (One thing, he already showed his every thing in front of his webcam before we met) He didn't anything bad at our first date because I told I don't want to before we met. I told him I can't have sex with someone who is not my boyfriend, he said he wants something more than just sex. From my past experiences, I know if a guy likes a girl, usually often calls her or ask her out, or do something to impress her. But he does not. I am so confused. I don't know what I should do.......

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 5:08am
Actions speak louder than words. Always. A guy who wants to impress a gal doesn't usually put his ding dong on a webcam.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 8:11am

He wants sex.

Someone who is interested in you as a person (your hopes, dreams, desires, needs, wants, etc.) doesn't whip out his johnson before you meet at a webcam session.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 8:28am
That's just gross. He obviously has not respect for you if he's showing you his junk before you even meet him. He's a loser... drop him!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 9:32am

I'm sorry to laugh - but how many different words are there for the *ahem* male organ? That's 4 in 4 posts.

To the OP - I'm not laughing at you!

But sweetie - he's treated you with zero respect. Block him and move on.


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 9:51am

>male organ?

Ahhhh...So *that* is what everyone is talking about! Yes, if a man shows you his gizmo on a webcam then he is only after sex. Drop him, he has no respect.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:12am
Depends on the size of the gizmo. *wink*
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:18am

>Depends on the size of the gizmo. *wink*

I'll get my webcam!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:33am
LOL

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:37am

LOL

Bring it on, brotha.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:44am

Thanks for all your responses!!

but I told him clearly, that I will not have sex with any guys unless he's my bf and I am looking for a serious relationship. What keeps me still have little hope is that he said he looks for something more than just a sex. He asked me what he would do to get him to be my bf, and he even said he wants to marry me!!!!!!!!!!

Am I fooled??

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