What does he want??

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
What does he want??
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Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:40am
I just met a guy online, he loves my pictures, thinks I am hot. We finally had a date, turned out it was fine. He said he wanted to have 2nd date with me. However, he seems never had time with me, we do not talk much(either from the phone or online chatting) He always seems busy, he said his work is very busy. (his work is not a regular 8 hours kind.) He always online late or no online, no calls sometimes. He makes me think whether he really likes me or just want to get me in bed. At same time, he keeps saying he likes me, he wants to kiss me and hold me. (One thing, he already showed his every thing in front of his webcam before we met) He didn't anything bad at our first date because I told I don't want to before we met. I told him I can't have sex with someone who is not my boyfriend, he said he wants something more than just sex. From my past experiences, I know if a guy likes a girl, usually often calls her or ask her out, or do something to impress her. But he does not. I am so confused. I don't know what I should do.......
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-03-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:45am
Yes. Drop him, fast.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:51am

>Yes. Drop him, fast.

Drop him and his ding dong, johnson, junk, male organ, gizmo, doodad!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:02am

You guys are so funny!! LOL

I think I will not call him and return his calls and block him........leave myself in peace!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:09am

Drop, block and roll.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:13am
If thats a right thing to do. I will.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:27am
I guess I am just fooled by myself. The truth is cruel sometimes, but I have to accept!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:31am

Yeah, marriage proposals too early on are NOT a good sign.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:43am
Yes, I was shocked that he even said that!! I knwo it's not from his heart, only from his mouth!! And I am no fool of it!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:11pm

<<< He asked me what he would do to get him to be my bf, and he even said he wants to marry me!!!!!!!!!! >>>

OH STOP! he'll say anything to get you in bed. Drop him and his web cam!

hello
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:38pm
but I guess he just picked wrong girl :)
it doesn't matter how handsome he is, doesn't matter how super his thing is. I am just not that kind of girl :)