What does he want??

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Registered: 10-07-2005
What does he want??
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Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:40am
I just met a guy online, he loves my pictures, thinks I am hot. We finally had a date, turned out it was fine. He said he wanted to have 2nd date with me. However, he seems never had time with me, we do not talk much(either from the phone or online chatting) He always seems busy, he said his work is very busy. (his work is not a regular 8 hours kind.) He always online late or no online, no calls sometimes. He makes me think whether he really likes me or just want to get me in bed. At same time, he keeps saying he likes me, he wants to kiss me and hold me. (One thing, he already showed his every thing in front of his webcam before we met) He didn't anything bad at our first date because I told I don't want to before we met. I told him I can't have sex with someone who is not my boyfriend, he said he wants something more than just sex. From my past experiences, I know if a guy likes a girl, usually often calls her or ask her out, or do something to impress her. But he does not. I am so confused. I don't know what I should do.......
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 1:43am

Thanks for everyone's advise!! I really appreciated it!

Call me dump! I am sorry what you meant by "You have a feeling"? What's your feeling?

I already haven't contacted with him since I read everyone's suggestions. He imed me in the messanger said he missed me on the Friday night (around 11pm); Saturday called me left message around 11:30pm, and I got his ims said he hasn't heard from me for a while whether he did anything wrong and if so he's sorry. (I called him on Wednesday we talked a little, he said he was busy for work. He would talk to me later. But then we didn't have contact since Thursday, then Friday I posted it here) But so far I haven't contacted him yet...........I guess I will be invisible for a while. Time will tell. If he wants sex only, then he's playing hard game. cause I ain't easy to sleep with anyone :P.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 7:50am
Yeah, at least the first date! LOL
 
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 7:55am

YEAH!!!

Because most men that shows his wanker to anybody with a webcam is really just misunderstood. LOL




Edited 10/9/2005 8:31 am ET ET by sniffle_sally
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 7:57am

THey always like a challenge.

The girl that says "I'm not like that" makes him like a kid in the candy store.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 11:11am

You know, it is possible for someone to miss details in an original

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 11:34am
Which is why I repeated it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 11:37am
Nevermind...

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 1:02pm

>>THey always like a challenge.

so maybe should jsut have sex at 1st date, no challenge no waste time, done and leave!

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 1:19pm
If that's all you want then go for it.
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 9:25pm
No thats not what I want, thats why I am confused and posted it......